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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 449997" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>So when you "save" our bacon with your "supposed" mystery account - JUst where does he think the money comes from? </p><p></p><p>You borrow it......From? </p><p></p><p>You have it stashed to save his bacon? And thus perpetuate his ability to occasionally think it's okay to withdraw funds because wifey will "somehow always fix it?" like difficult child gettting chance after chance? (none of my business - just food for TOUGH LOVE thought. </p><p></p><p>You don't discuss funds with him and allow him to think there was just that much available and now you are broke - really broke - with over draft fees ect? </p><p></p><p>I'm curious because DF has done this on (not gambling) but does the mystery swipe at the ATM ala the convenience store thinking it's his teller of good/bad fortune before and thought he had a window to the world of finances also. I too was inflamed because 1.) I will discuss anything with you. 2.) It was in my humble opinion sneaky I don't do sneaky even if you swear you were just 'curious' - because I have curiosities too and they are far more reaching than swiping an ATM for a balance inquiry - so when my curiosities pique - shall I bundle them up under the [meah I was curious] adjustment and all is forgiven or are you going to see my side of this is sneaky? He conceded and now will ask - also the account is set so that I can see every activity and balance inquiries were $2.00 a pop from a non account ATM. DUH. (groan) UGH. </p><p></p><p>And like you? I have the hardest time explaining - THIS HAS NOT CLEARED ----but when I pay something I subtract it in the ledger - and I promise MY balance is a much more accurate representation of OUR actual balance than the banks. SO when he wants to know DO WE HAVE MONEY NOW? He asks. No more swiping - lest HE find out what MY curiosities are....and a Stars curiosities are NOT about money - I <u><em><strong>assure</strong></em></u> you. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there Chickey.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 449997, member: 4964"] So when you "save" our bacon with your "supposed" mystery account - JUst where does he think the money comes from? You borrow it......From? You have it stashed to save his bacon? And thus perpetuate his ability to occasionally think it's okay to withdraw funds because wifey will "somehow always fix it?" like difficult child gettting chance after chance? (none of my business - just food for TOUGH LOVE thought. You don't discuss funds with him and allow him to think there was just that much available and now you are broke - really broke - with over draft fees ect? I'm curious because DF has done this on (not gambling) but does the mystery swipe at the ATM ala the convenience store thinking it's his teller of good/bad fortune before and thought he had a window to the world of finances also. I too was inflamed because 1.) I will discuss anything with you. 2.) It was in my humble opinion sneaky I don't do sneaky even if you swear you were just 'curious' - because I have curiosities too and they are far more reaching than swiping an ATM for a balance inquiry - so when my curiosities pique - shall I bundle them up under the [meah I was curious] adjustment and all is forgiven or are you going to see my side of this is sneaky? He conceded and now will ask - also the account is set so that I can see every activity and balance inquiries were $2.00 a pop from a non account ATM. DUH. (groan) UGH. And like you? I have the hardest time explaining - THIS HAS NOT CLEARED ----but when I pay something I subtract it in the ledger - and I promise MY balance is a much more accurate representation of OUR actual balance than the banks. SO when he wants to know DO WE HAVE MONEY NOW? He asks. No more swiping - lest HE find out what MY curiosities are....and a Stars curiosities are NOT about money - I [U][I][B]assure[/B][/I][/U] you. Hang in there Chickey. [/QUOTE]
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