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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 450740" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>The community property law typically does mean his debts are mine, should we ever split, unless I can somehow prove I had no access to the account (I think?). Actually, I have access to every account he has, but not vice versa. And virtually ALL of our assets were acquired while we've been married, with the exception of the majority of a 401K rollover account that I have, the bulk of which was invested by me before we met. But this law is another reason I contacted the company of the one card he does use and asked that the limit be lowered by more than 1/2. He doesn't even know I did it, and I doubt he'll ever notice. He just doesn't pay attention to details like that.</p><p></p><p>He got another wakeup call from the dentist today (separate thread) which seems to have snapped him out of his pity party. He was talking about changes he could make and pointed out the fact that he took his lunch to work for the first time in 15 or 20 years and asserted that he could continue doing that, and that it would likely save us $200 a month or more. But like you said, behaviors only change when there's recognition and acknowledgement. I don't believe he's completely there yet with seeing the big picture.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 450740, member: 3444"] The community property law typically does mean his debts are mine, should we ever split, unless I can somehow prove I had no access to the account (I think?). Actually, I have access to every account he has, but not vice versa. And virtually ALL of our assets were acquired while we've been married, with the exception of the majority of a 401K rollover account that I have, the bulk of which was invested by me before we met. But this law is another reason I contacted the company of the one card he does use and asked that the limit be lowered by more than 1/2. He doesn't even know I did it, and I doubt he'll ever notice. He just doesn't pay attention to details like that. He got another wakeup call from the dentist today (separate thread) which seems to have snapped him out of his pity party. He was talking about changes he could make and pointed out the fact that he took his lunch to work for the first time in 15 or 20 years and asserted that he could continue doing that, and that it would likely save us $200 a month or more. But like you said, behaviors only change when there's recognition and acknowledgement. I don't believe he's completely there yet with seeing the big picture. [/QUOTE]
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