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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 633922" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>I have this eery feeling that I'm in a calm before the storm.</p><p></p><p>I've not heard from difficult child since LAST Sunday.</p><p></p><p>His sister hadn't either until she had to text him today regarding a netflix subscription.</p><p></p><p>I went by my empty house today and his stuff is still there, but I can tell that he hasn't been there.</p><p></p><p>I'm being honest- this is the hardest part- I need to get him to leave asap so we can list the house.</p><p></p><p>Based on things he has said in the past- forcing him into homelessness will cause him to tear up the whole house to make it 'unsellable'.</p><p></p><p>While I mainly think this is 'all talk'....I know him. I know that if I went over there and a) packed his things into boxes and left in garage, changed locks- he would lose his mind. I'm not at the house 24/7, so I can't monitor that he goes and gets his things and moves on.......b) I tell him that he has to go, he calls my bluff and tells me to make him. We are in TX, I'd have to 'evict' him. Or, would I? The house is EMPTY. No stove, no fridge, no furniture- utilities are still on, but that's because of inspections and listing on the market.</p><p></p><p>I'm just feeling antsy- and I need to figure out what to do. Work will be crazy next week- I'll literally have NO time during the business day to find out anything or call anyone. So, I don't know what to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 633922, member: 18271"] I have this eery feeling that I'm in a calm before the storm. I've not heard from difficult child since LAST Sunday. His sister hadn't either until she had to text him today regarding a netflix subscription. I went by my empty house today and his stuff is still there, but I can tell that he hasn't been there. I'm being honest- this is the hardest part- I need to get him to leave asap so we can list the house. Based on things he has said in the past- forcing him into homelessness will cause him to tear up the whole house to make it 'unsellable'. While I mainly think this is 'all talk'....I know him. I know that if I went over there and a) packed his things into boxes and left in garage, changed locks- he would lose his mind. I'm not at the house 24/7, so I can't monitor that he goes and gets his things and moves on.......b) I tell him that he has to go, he calls my bluff and tells me to make him. We are in TX, I'd have to 'evict' him. Or, would I? The house is EMPTY. No stove, no fridge, no furniture- utilities are still on, but that's because of inspections and listing on the market. I'm just feeling antsy- and I need to figure out what to do. Work will be crazy next week- I'll literally have NO time during the business day to find out anything or call anyone. So, I don't know what to do. [/QUOTE]
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