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Calm before the storm
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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 634401" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>This was a big 'aha' moment for me. I was always rushing in to <em>help</em> ('fix' 'control'). My son very rarely asks for anything now, and maybe he never did. I just 'heard' him asking, inside my own head. I don't hear this any more, but I do still help out occasionally, when I want to, when it makes <em>me </em>feel good. and only in small ways, like buying socks.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you're feeling better and that you are now able to move forward with the house. I'm glad you made the choices about helping that were right for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 634401, member: 17650"] This was a big 'aha' moment for me. I was always rushing in to [I]help[/I] ('fix' 'control'). My son very rarely asks for anything now, and maybe he never did. I just 'heard' him asking, inside my own head. I don't hear this any more, but I do still help out occasionally, when I want to, when it makes [I]me [/I]feel good. and only in small ways, like buying socks. I'm glad you're feeling better and that you are now able to move forward with the house. I'm glad you made the choices about helping that were right for you. [/QUOTE]
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