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Can I discipline my 20 year old daughter if i support her?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 541380" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>If the card is in your name - cancel it. The company will let you do this since you are primary - you just tell them you need the card cancelled and reissued to YOU ONLY, and you pay the balance... And I hate to say this, but don't expect her to EVER pay you back. As for groceries - for food, you buy what you can afford, and if she doesn't like it, let her use her own money.</p><p></p><p>Controlling her, well, no. However - your home, your rules. She doesn't like them? She can move out to somewhere else, where she LIKES the rules (and paying her own way). I lived with my parents till I was 21 (a while after that). I told them where I was going to be if not home. When I left my ex at age 28 and came home for a few months I abided by their rules.</p><p></p><p>Take back the car keys. Let her find her own transportation. Buses are awful (in my opinion) and taxis are expensive.</p><p></p><p>Is it HER computer... Or yours?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 541380, member: 6705"] If the card is in your name - cancel it. The company will let you do this since you are primary - you just tell them you need the card cancelled and reissued to YOU ONLY, and you pay the balance... And I hate to say this, but don't expect her to EVER pay you back. As for groceries - for food, you buy what you can afford, and if she doesn't like it, let her use her own money. Controlling her, well, no. However - your home, your rules. She doesn't like them? She can move out to somewhere else, where she LIKES the rules (and paying her own way). I lived with my parents till I was 21 (a while after that). I told them where I was going to be if not home. When I left my ex at age 28 and came home for a few months I abided by their rules. Take back the car keys. Let her find her own transportation. Buses are awful (in my opinion) and taxis are expensive. Is it HER computer... Or yours? [/QUOTE]
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