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<blockquote data-quote="death-diver" data-source="post: 410620" data-attributes="member: 11286"><p>I have 2 BOYS 1 is 6 and the other is 4 almost 5 ... the oldest went to the meyers center (tc chidren's hospital) I was told he had a speach something or other (he hears but does not comprehned ) and a behavioral problem that only is ODD or CD ... my other son is fixing to be seen because he is worse then the oldest (if you can imaagine worst then what you are going through) besides seeing my kids in your post my younest tell detailed graphic stories about how and who he is going to hurt .. this has gone on for aout a year and 1/2 with about 6 months of not doing it it started back up and this time is taking it to school with him even after telling him a billion and one times we dont talk like that ..... yeah i totally understand the frustration and everything The oldest's 1st behavior theropest Cused him out like he was a 15 year old just stole 3 cars calling him a little S and a little F ( with the words) and told him he was going to jail by the time he was 10 so I found a different theropist and SHE YELLED at me like it was 100% my fault he was ODD I have done my homework al the very most enviroment is like 15% but that is for my house because I live with in laws who show my sons I DONT MATTER, "THEY DONT HAVE TO LISTEN TO MOMMY" infact a few days ago the hubby's father came slamming through the door FROM the garage and yelled at me "Who the H do you think you are telling telling these kids what to do?" I replied "THEIR MOTHER" then he said "B.S." i told him "iF I am not thier mother then Y am I here?" when he gets mad at me he yells and it has turned into him hurting ME 4 times now i finally called the cops because my husband does not stop him and then acts like i over exagrated how bad he hurt me.... YEAH 15% enviroment but NO way am I takeing 100% of the blame .... some phsyciatrist also told me they have a touch of adhd ... i told him if they cant have that because they can turn it on and at their will .... anyway the other 85% brakes down to mental issues with my husbands MOTHER and there is GOT TO BE SOMETHING PHYSICALLY wrong that noone is takeing a look at... I am not happy with just having tell me my sons are mental ... I dont know what it could be because I dont know how or what to tell a dr to look for i know its NOT toretts or down syndrom I dont have a clue if it might could be a high funtioning autistic the myers center didnt say anything about anything other then what he diagnosed 1 of the 2 (they cant see the other one untill I get a refural and his Pdr said no BASICALLYdidnt just come right out and say no but said his development looks good and in normal range for his age group ....i WISH I was like you and not start my sons on the medications they were proscribed my oldest had to go to the ER 2 days after taking the 1st pill and now is ahving breathing problems from the 2nd one (he already has asmha) and the nebulizer did not stop his coughing so I knew it was not an atack because that thing never has NOT WORKED FOR HIM and the 2 child is on a CONTROLED SUBSTANCE at 4 who knows what kind of problems that is going to show up soon ..... I wish I would have kept to my guns and only have them see doctors that CANT prescribe medications but all thous doctors said they NEEDED to be and I believed them because of how bad I get hurt by them BOTH at the same TIME. I just wished there was a real formal "TEST" I or they could do like a heartatack is read by the ekg and a cat scan is for the brain if they bump it too hard .. not just talk to me for 30 mins and say here is a medication we can try.... I talked to a lawyer about the time I had to RUSH my son to the ER and she told me because he is a mental type dr he does not have the same malpractice laws as a regular dr .... he is allowed to make my son a ginny pig and ddo basicaclly whatever to him as longas it does not have a PREMENT EFFECT I said so basically he has to KILL my son before I can sue him she told me saddly but yeah pritty much how it works .... & even then they can get out of it because its too hard to diagnose the exact thing he may have because its all mentally not "physically" like a broken arm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="death-diver, post: 410620, member: 11286"] I have 2 BOYS 1 is 6 and the other is 4 almost 5 ... the oldest went to the meyers center (tc chidren's hospital) I was told he had a speach something or other (he hears but does not comprehned ) and a behavioral problem that only is ODD or CD ... my other son is fixing to be seen because he is worse then the oldest (if you can imaagine worst then what you are going through) besides seeing my kids in your post my younest tell detailed graphic stories about how and who he is going to hurt .. this has gone on for aout a year and 1/2 with about 6 months of not doing it it started back up and this time is taking it to school with him even after telling him a billion and one times we dont talk like that ..... yeah i totally understand the frustration and everything The oldest's 1st behavior theropest Cused him out like he was a 15 year old just stole 3 cars calling him a little S and a little F ( with the words) and told him he was going to jail by the time he was 10 so I found a different theropist and SHE YELLED at me like it was 100% my fault he was ODD I have done my homework al the very most enviroment is like 15% but that is for my house because I live with in laws who show my sons I DONT MATTER, "THEY DONT HAVE TO LISTEN TO MOMMY" infact a few days ago the hubby's father came slamming through the door FROM the garage and yelled at me "Who the H do you think you are telling telling these kids what to do?" I replied "THEIR MOTHER" then he said "B.S." i told him "iF I am not thier mother then Y am I here?" when he gets mad at me he yells and it has turned into him hurting ME 4 times now i finally called the cops because my husband does not stop him and then acts like i over exagrated how bad he hurt me.... YEAH 15% enviroment but NO way am I takeing 100% of the blame .... some phsyciatrist also told me they have a touch of adhd ... i told him if they cant have that because they can turn it on and at their will .... anyway the other 85% brakes down to mental issues with my husbands MOTHER and there is GOT TO BE SOMETHING PHYSICALLY wrong that noone is takeing a look at... I am not happy with just having tell me my sons are mental ... I dont know what it could be because I dont know how or what to tell a dr to look for i know its NOT toretts or down syndrom I dont have a clue if it might could be a high funtioning autistic the myers center didnt say anything about anything other then what he diagnosed 1 of the 2 (they cant see the other one untill I get a refural and his Pdr said no BASICALLYdidnt just come right out and say no but said his development looks good and in normal range for his age group ....i WISH I was like you and not start my sons on the medications they were proscribed my oldest had to go to the ER 2 days after taking the 1st pill and now is ahving breathing problems from the 2nd one (he already has asmha) and the nebulizer did not stop his coughing so I knew it was not an atack because that thing never has NOT WORKED FOR HIM and the 2 child is on a CONTROLED SUBSTANCE at 4 who knows what kind of problems that is going to show up soon ..... I wish I would have kept to my guns and only have them see doctors that CANT prescribe medications but all thous doctors said they NEEDED to be and I believed them because of how bad I get hurt by them BOTH at the same TIME. I just wished there was a real formal "TEST" I or they could do like a heartatack is read by the ekg and a cat scan is for the brain if they bump it too hard .. not just talk to me for 30 mins and say here is a medication we can try.... I talked to a lawyer about the time I had to RUSH my son to the ER and she told me because he is a mental type dr he does not have the same malpractice laws as a regular dr .... he is allowed to make my son a ginny pig and ddo basicaclly whatever to him as longas it does not have a PREMENT EFFECT I said so basically he has to KILL my son before I can sue him she told me saddly but yeah pritty much how it works .... & even then they can get out of it because its too hard to diagnose the exact thing he may have because its all mentally not "physically" like a broken arm [/QUOTE]
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