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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 438194" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>You guys are right, I know. Matt has been the one pushing me away for the last month, and telling me I am controlling and smothering and he is right. I got it. </p><p></p><p>Now I have to make the mental shift to disconnect. Because as much as he tells me I am controlling, he will turn back around and become needy again - and it can't go both ways.</p><p></p><p>I thought about this today as he took off to Idaho - the only way to learn is to do it. He is not going to learn, or grow if I run interference. </p><p></p><p>I just thought that maybe some of you had experience with wrap around services, or someone that comes to the house to check in on the mentally ill person to make sure they are doing what is healthy. Maybe that too is enabling? I don't know - that is what the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) had - "aftercare" is what it was called.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 438194, member: 3301"] You guys are right, I know. Matt has been the one pushing me away for the last month, and telling me I am controlling and smothering and he is right. I got it. Now I have to make the mental shift to disconnect. Because as much as he tells me I am controlling, he will turn back around and become needy again - and it can't go both ways. I thought about this today as he took off to Idaho - the only way to learn is to do it. He is not going to learn, or grow if I run interference. I just thought that maybe some of you had experience with wrap around services, or someone that comes to the house to check in on the mentally ill person to make sure they are doing what is healthy. Maybe that too is enabling? I don't know - that is what the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) had - "aftercare" is what it was called. [/QUOTE]
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