I haven't posted in quite a while, but I do read. My difficult child is still a difficult child, but we are seeing improvement as she ages. I learned long ago to remove myself from her drama so that keeps us out of her chaos. There is hope! She was at our family gathering for Thanksgiving. I have never known our difficult child to use drugs. Several years ago she did tell me that she had tried a few things but didn't like it. I am SO thankful for that and I do believe her. I've never had any indication or suspicion of her using drugs. She was unavailable as other guests were leaving, and I got nominated to move her car so my brother could leave. What has prompted this post is that I noticed canned air in the drivers side door. I find that so odd! She does have a new car that she says she is trying to keep clean. She is not a clean person about herself, her home or her other cars. The car was clean except for the horrendous cigarette smell. She must smoke in there with the window up! Do people use canned air to clean their cars, or could this be her vise? I would never ask her as she lie's as well as she tells the truth and it would just cause me more upset. She has been more stable in the last couple of months than she ever has been. I don't see her that often to get any visual clues. I do talk to her, but have not picked up on anything any more unusual than usual if that makes sense! Any insight?