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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 425434" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Would I prefer for my J's birth mother not to have done whatever it was she did (probably or at least possibly) that changed his brain in the way it did? Yes, in all honesty. Would I like my J to be the way he could be if the damage had not occurred? Yes. He is so smart, funny and affectionate - what would he be like if he didn't have his hyperactivity, his over-boisterousness that make people shun him sometimes, his oppositional mind-set that makes life with him so difficult sometimes? It WOULD be nice if it had all happened some other way. But... it didn't. So it has come to me the way it's come and I have the son I have and I am trying to embrace him as he is... And it's hard. I just know it is my life and it is what I have.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 425434, member: 11227"] Would I prefer for my J's birth mother not to have done whatever it was she did (probably or at least possibly) that changed his brain in the way it did? Yes, in all honesty. Would I like my J to be the way he could be if the damage had not occurred? Yes. He is so smart, funny and affectionate - what would he be like if he didn't have his hyperactivity, his over-boisterousness that make people shun him sometimes, his oppositional mind-set that makes life with him so difficult sometimes? It WOULD be nice if it had all happened some other way. But... it didn't. So it has come to me the way it's come and I have the son I have and I am trying to embrace him as he is... And it's hard. I just know it is my life and it is what I have. [/QUOTE]
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