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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingSerenity" data-source="post: 84117" data-attributes="member: 4161"><p>First of all please remember that you and the kids are the victims here so don't let anyone try to convince you to feel the least bit sorry for husband. Tell your mother in law to stuff a sock in it and husband shouldn't even be calling you at all. You don't have to talk to him. </p><p></p><p>Actually the judge is the only one to decide whether or not your husband gets any kind of visitation. It is not your problem. There really shouldn't be any talk of visitation until the results of the assault charge and after he goes through the evaluation and treatment. Only then should the judge decide if he should see the kids at all or have supervised visitation. </p><p></p><p>I don't have too much respect for the children services system. I've seen too many times them not doing anything in situations where they do need to intervene but harassing people that are doing the best they can. I had my DEX call them on me one time just because he was mad at me. </p><p></p><p>I would also suggest like the others have to document everything. Also you could go talk to a lawyer. You can find some that have free consultations and also you might find one that will take the case pro bono. At the very least you will know what your legal rights are. </p><p></p><p>Just hang in there and try to stay strong. I'm a survivor of domestic abuse and I know how hard things are for you right now. Remember you're not alone. </p><p></p><p>Debbie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingSerenity, post: 84117, member: 4161"] First of all please remember that you and the kids are the victims here so don't let anyone try to convince you to feel the least bit sorry for husband. Tell your mother in law to stuff a sock in it and husband shouldn't even be calling you at all. You don't have to talk to him. Actually the judge is the only one to decide whether or not your husband gets any kind of visitation. It is not your problem. There really shouldn't be any talk of visitation until the results of the assault charge and after he goes through the evaluation and treatment. Only then should the judge decide if he should see the kids at all or have supervised visitation. I don't have too much respect for the children services system. I've seen too many times them not doing anything in situations where they do need to intervene but harassing people that are doing the best they can. I had my DEX call them on me one time just because he was mad at me. I would also suggest like the others have to document everything. Also you could go talk to a lawyer. You can find some that have free consultations and also you might find one that will take the case pro bono. At the very least you will know what your legal rights are. Just hang in there and try to stay strong. I'm a survivor of domestic abuse and I know how hard things are for you right now. Remember you're not alone. Debbie [/QUOTE]
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