KFld
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So I posted in my mothers day post how my son and his girlfriend want to move out of their hotel that they have been in for 3 months now. He asked me if I would be willing to put up the security and I said no, I don't have that kind of money.
He found somebody who he says is willing to work with him on finding a place and she knows he has no money for security and terrible credit, but will help him as long as he has a co-signer with good credit.
Now my sons past history is that he had his own apartment for around 5 years, was clean for a long time and for the most part did very well. His first one was with his last girlfriend and they both worked, paid their bills and rent and did fine. She moved out and him and his current girlfriend did good for awhile, until he relapsed and you know how that goes.
He since then has gotten himself back into treatment, has a decent solid full time job and his girlfriend is pretty much working full time also. They have been paying around $1000.00 a month between the two of them to stay in the hotel since he lost his last apartment, but they have been paying it faithfully and haven't asked me to pay for it at all. Guess they are tired of living in one room and feel they are ready to get back into a rent and are swearing up and down that if they have to they will give me their money every week when they get paid to pay their rent.
I know his credit is shot and unless somebody co-signs he will have to stay in the hotel forever. My gut is telling me they can do this. Should I co-sign and give them the chance????
He found somebody who he says is willing to work with him on finding a place and she knows he has no money for security and terrible credit, but will help him as long as he has a co-signer with good credit.
Now my sons past history is that he had his own apartment for around 5 years, was clean for a long time and for the most part did very well. His first one was with his last girlfriend and they both worked, paid their bills and rent and did fine. She moved out and him and his current girlfriend did good for awhile, until he relapsed and you know how that goes.
He since then has gotten himself back into treatment, has a decent solid full time job and his girlfriend is pretty much working full time also. They have been paying around $1000.00 a month between the two of them to stay in the hotel since he lost his last apartment, but they have been paying it faithfully and haven't asked me to pay for it at all. Guess they are tired of living in one room and feel they are ready to get back into a rent and are swearing up and down that if they have to they will give me their money every week when they get paid to pay their rent.
I know his credit is shot and unless somebody co-signs he will have to stay in the hotel forever. My gut is telling me they can do this. Should I co-sign and give them the chance????