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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 593585" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>That's the thing when they scared us about this last time, I shut down. Things were getting a bit better but sitting in the back of my mind. Now all this stuff comes up again and I'm worried. </p><p></p><p>I do the same with my laundry in fact we got half of it folded and put away yesterday. </p><p></p><p>I just don't understand how try are completely ignoring his diagnosis's and the surgery how is it even effen legal. What purpose they think it serves since all of this **** is supposedly for the betterment of my family? Losing my home with less than a months notice is not in my best interest nor my children's. cutting him lose without the medications that are keeping him from harming me or the kids also not in my best interest. We don't know what surgery is going to accomplish but I do know that he is about 1000 better then he was with the cocktail of drugs and therapy twice a week. </p><p></p><p>Yes they pay for a lawyer, you have the option to hire your own but that is not a viable option at this point. We are not contesting him getting out of the army just the blatant disregard of everything that is going on with him medically and mentally. His two therapists are trying to get the medical discharge process started but they are moving on army time not "save my butt" time. </p><p>I've given suggestions to hubs but he's still not functioning outside the house at his best and I can not be his advocate unless invited to be. Supposedly we are going to talk to his colonel together and that could make a lot of difference, but I'm tired of being cycled through this roller coaster. I was with my husband holding the house down during his 14 day phospital visit. 21 day removal from my home. Called ambulance for over dose went through another four days with him in hospital. 17 different medication changes over the past three months and I feel like I have failed! Totally failed and should of found a way for this not to happen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 593585, member: 16184"] That's the thing when they scared us about this last time, I shut down. Things were getting a bit better but sitting in the back of my mind. Now all this stuff comes up again and I'm worried. I do the same with my laundry in fact we got half of it folded and put away yesterday. I just don't understand how try are completely ignoring his diagnosis's and the surgery how is it even effen legal. What purpose they think it serves since all of this **** is supposedly for the betterment of my family? Losing my home with less than a months notice is not in my best interest nor my children's. cutting him lose without the medications that are keeping him from harming me or the kids also not in my best interest. We don't know what surgery is going to accomplish but I do know that he is about 1000 better then he was with the cocktail of drugs and therapy twice a week. Yes they pay for a lawyer, you have the option to hire your own but that is not a viable option at this point. We are not contesting him getting out of the army just the blatant disregard of everything that is going on with him medically and mentally. His two therapists are trying to get the medical discharge process started but they are moving on army time not "save my butt" time. I've given suggestions to hubs but he's still not functioning outside the house at his best and I can not be his advocate unless invited to be. Supposedly we are going to talk to his colonel together and that could make a lot of difference, but I'm tired of being cycled through this roller coaster. I was with my husband holding the house down during his 14 day phospital visit. 21 day removal from my home. Called ambulance for over dose went through another four days with him in hospital. 17 different medication changes over the past three months and I feel like I have failed! Totally failed and should of found a way for this not to happen. [/QUOTE]
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