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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 427879" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>Nope, Aspies can lie. You will meet lots of people who claim they can't but they most definitely can.</p><p></p><p>Aspies lie in a different way than non-Aspies. Eeyore's lies usually fall into one of two categories (1) he tells the story that way he feels it SHOULD have happened rather than how it really did or (2) panic-lies where he knows that he is going to be in trouble and he just blurts out craziness to try and delay the inevitable. </p><p></p><p>The SHOULD HAVE lies are hard to detect because they truly believe that is what was suppose to happen so it doesn't feel like a lie to them.</p><p></p><p>The PANIC lies are often easy to detect cause they aren't usually good at lying and will often confess eventually because the cognitive dissonance caused by the lie bothers them so much.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like difficult child gave you the PANIC lies. With Eeyore, I have found that it is best to ignore the lies and deal with the issue (stealing, having knives and lighters). If you try and deal with the "lying" then the "stealing" and "how to be safe" will get lost to him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 427879, member: 1169"] Nope, Aspies can lie. You will meet lots of people who claim they can't but they most definitely can. Aspies lie in a different way than non-Aspies. Eeyore's lies usually fall into one of two categories (1) he tells the story that way he feels it SHOULD have happened rather than how it really did or (2) panic-lies where he knows that he is going to be in trouble and he just blurts out craziness to try and delay the inevitable. The SHOULD HAVE lies are hard to detect because they truly believe that is what was suppose to happen so it doesn't feel like a lie to them. The PANIC lies are often easy to detect cause they aren't usually good at lying and will often confess eventually because the cognitive dissonance caused by the lie bothers them so much. It sounds like difficult child gave you the PANIC lies. With Eeyore, I have found that it is best to ignore the lies and deal with the issue (stealing, having knives and lighters). If you try and deal with the "lying" then the "stealing" and "how to be safe" will get lost to him. [/QUOTE]
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