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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 67505" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Yes, I agree that you must clearly explain that there are consequences for certain behaviors. difficult child may not know that whining because he's last in line for golf is not appropriate. You also have to give him one warning so he understands what kind of whining you are talking about. (Maybe even imitate it at home where no one else is listening.) </p><p>We found that we have had to explain every little thing to our difficult child or he has meltdowns.</p><p></p><p>You and your spouse have to be on the same page or your discipline will not work. It's got to be consistent.</p><p></p><p>The fact that he helped unload the van means that when he has an incentive, he can be very helpful and have a good sense of purpose. That's a very good thing! It gives you something to work with.</p><p></p><p>No, you're not crazy. You've come to the right place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 67505, member: 3419"] Yes, I agree that you must clearly explain that there are consequences for certain behaviors. difficult child may not know that whining because he's last in line for golf is not appropriate. You also have to give him one warning so he understands what kind of whining you are talking about. (Maybe even imitate it at home where no one else is listening.) We found that we have had to explain every little thing to our difficult child or he has meltdowns. You and your spouse have to be on the same page or your discipline will not work. It's got to be consistent. The fact that he helped unload the van means that when he has an incentive, he can be very helpful and have a good sense of purpose. That's a very good thing! It gives you something to work with. No, you're not crazy. You've come to the right place. [/QUOTE]
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