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<blockquote data-quote="SJB" data-source="post: 353317"><p>Thanks everyone for the advice, I'll try to answer some of you questions here.</p><p> </p><p>She's not on any of my bank accounts (she has her own and that's where her school tuition comes from) or credit cards. She doesn't have the same last name as I do so if the store had asked for ID they'd have seen that. </p><p> </p><p>She sees a pyschiatrist (useless) for medications and a psychologist for therapy. The psychologist is trying to fine tune her diagnosis but difficult child has gone out of her way to miss her appointments. I'm trying again this week. </p><p> </p><p>Her next psychiatrist appointment isn't until May. I called this morning to see if I could get a consult but they charge $200 bucks. So I arranged a 40 min appointment and will take that additional 10 mins myself to try and explain to him AGAIN what is really going on.</p><p> </p><p>I'm waiting for the list from the CC company to see just how many of those charges actually went through. the $1200 was total of what she tried to charge, the account was suspended before she actually got that high. </p><p> </p><p>She's still a juvenile, the law won't kick in with any teeth until she's 18. Which means she'd get funneled into the same diversion program through the Juvenile Welfare Board and we would -- meaning I would-- end up going through more "intervention". </p><p> </p><p>The CC company has removed the charges and will contact the merchants. If they figure out what happened and finger her then she'll have to face the consequences--like you say, Janet, the bank can be the bad guy. I still can not believe that merchants would take a card from a couple of teenagers--she would have had to have signed for the purchases even if she swiped the card (pun intended) electronically. But as I said before, all my CCs have "Ask for ID" on the back and I'm almost never asked. Check to see if the sig matches? What's that?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SJB, post: 353317"] Thanks everyone for the advice, I'll try to answer some of you questions here. She's not on any of my bank accounts (she has her own and that's where her school tuition comes from) or credit cards. She doesn't have the same last name as I do so if the store had asked for ID they'd have seen that. She sees a pyschiatrist (useless) for medications and a psychologist for therapy. The psychologist is trying to fine tune her diagnosis but difficult child has gone out of her way to miss her appointments. I'm trying again this week. Her next psychiatrist appointment isn't until May. I called this morning to see if I could get a consult but they charge $200 bucks. So I arranged a 40 min appointment and will take that additional 10 mins myself to try and explain to him AGAIN what is really going on. I'm waiting for the list from the CC company to see just how many of those charges actually went through. the $1200 was total of what she tried to charge, the account was suspended before she actually got that high. She's still a juvenile, the law won't kick in with any teeth until she's 18. Which means she'd get funneled into the same diversion program through the Juvenile Welfare Board and we would -- meaning I would-- end up going through more "intervention". The CC company has removed the charges and will contact the merchants. If they figure out what happened and finger her then she'll have to face the consequences--like you say, Janet, the bank can be the bad guy. I still can not believe that merchants would take a card from a couple of teenagers--she would have had to have signed for the purchases even if she swiped the card (pun intended) electronically. But as I said before, all my CCs have "Ask for ID" on the back and I'm almost never asked. Check to see if the sig matches? What's that? [/QUOTE]
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