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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 373157" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p>For us the rewards chart only became something else to fight about. We had absolutely no luck with them. Someone who is more consistent in implementing them may have a better changes, but it just did not work for us. For my difficult child I agreed with "The Explosive Child" book. The author states that reward charts don't always work, because the child naturally wants to make their parents happy and behave. When they don't it is not because of lack of motivation it is because of the lack of skills. Rather then create another thing to fight over you need to teach them the skills. (Easier said then done). But, he also has some videos where he provides examples of how. I found them very helpful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 373157, member: 6557"] For us the rewards chart only became something else to fight about. We had absolutely no luck with them. Someone who is more consistent in implementing them may have a better changes, but it just did not work for us. For my difficult child I agreed with "The Explosive Child" book. The author states that reward charts don't always work, because the child naturally wants to make their parents happy and behave. When they don't it is not because of lack of motivation it is because of the lack of skills. Rather then create another thing to fight over you need to teach them the skills. (Easier said then done). But, he also has some videos where he provides examples of how. I found them very helpful. [/QUOTE]
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