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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 587794" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Sending understanding hugs your way. I think many of us who have raised difficult children are overly protective and eager to control any possible traumatic situtation. Frankly it gets more difficult with each passing year and, at least for me, alot more stressful.</p><p></p><p>Although I have not be in your shoes my grandson (who went from easy child child to easy child/difficult child teen to difficult child and back to easy child/difficult child) met his bioDad when he was ten or eleven. His Mother arranged the meeting with-o consulting me even tho he lived full time with husband and me. I almost tossed my cookies as soon as I heard because I knew I couldn't observe the meeting, hear what was said etc. etc. In our case there was a two year honeymoon period and just as I had begun to relax and go with the flow...his bioDad, stepMom and half brother literally packed up and moved out of town with no word. Sigh! </p><p></p><p>I have no sage advice but wanted you to know that someone understands how you are feeling. Fingers crossed that this meeting results in a positive outcome. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 587794, member: 35"] Sending understanding hugs your way. I think many of us who have raised difficult children are overly protective and eager to control any possible traumatic situtation. Frankly it gets more difficult with each passing year and, at least for me, alot more stressful. Although I have not be in your shoes my grandson (who went from easy child child to easy child/difficult child teen to difficult child and back to easy child/difficult child) met his bioDad when he was ten or eleven. His Mother arranged the meeting with-o consulting me even tho he lived full time with husband and me. I almost tossed my cookies as soon as I heard because I knew I couldn't observe the meeting, hear what was said etc. etc. In our case there was a two year honeymoon period and just as I had begun to relax and go with the flow...his bioDad, stepMom and half brother literally packed up and moved out of town with no word. Sigh! I have no sage advice but wanted you to know that someone understands how you are feeling. Fingers crossed that this meeting results in a positive outcome. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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