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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 587807" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I don't have much advise, just lots of sympathy. We have complicated situation with this topic and I'm literally terrified the day difficult child may want to really open that can of worms.</p><p></p><p>Maybe in your situation it would be wise to acknowledge feelings surrounding the situation matter of factly. Your parents are angry. Your difficult child has a right to be angry. However biodad may not have been capable for more in that time. And nothing can be done to that now. And things didn't turn out that badly after all so now it is better to look into future.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you should advice your daughter not to have too high expectations. She can seize the opportunity to get to know her biodad, but it will likely never be the same than if he would had been part of her life her whole life. Neither will it be same to her biodad then his other children. But they can be friends.</p><p></p><p>I think that open and honest communication is the best chance in these kind of tricky situations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 587807, member: 14557"] I don't have much advise, just lots of sympathy. We have complicated situation with this topic and I'm literally terrified the day difficult child may want to really open that can of worms. Maybe in your situation it would be wise to acknowledge feelings surrounding the situation matter of factly. Your parents are angry. Your difficult child has a right to be angry. However biodad may not have been capable for more in that time. And nothing can be done to that now. And things didn't turn out that badly after all so now it is better to look into future. Maybe you should advice your daughter not to have too high expectations. She can seize the opportunity to get to know her biodad, but it will likely never be the same than if he would had been part of her life her whole life. Neither will it be same to her biodad then his other children. But they can be friends. I think that open and honest communication is the best chance in these kind of tricky situations. [/QUOTE]
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