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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 587858" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Whew, that is a complex situation. I am sorry you are in the middle of it. And, yes, I don't think you can control any of it. Perhaps you could recommend that everyone sits down with an impartial person, likely a therapist, to wade through all the feelings and angers, resentments, etc. If no one agrees to that, if I were in your shoes, I think I would go to a therapist to sort through my own feelings and see if together we could come up with options that would work considering everyone is going to have different feelings and different ideas on how this should go. I don't think you should take this one on, this involves a lot of people who all have diverse emotions. I think it would be wise to seek help for you to understand exactly what your role is, if any at this point since she is living with your parents. I empathize with you, this is a tough one, but it may be another form of detachment for you. (((HUGS))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 587858, member: 13542"] Whew, that is a complex situation. I am sorry you are in the middle of it. And, yes, I don't think you can control any of it. Perhaps you could recommend that everyone sits down with an impartial person, likely a therapist, to wade through all the feelings and angers, resentments, etc. If no one agrees to that, if I were in your shoes, I think I would go to a therapist to sort through my own feelings and see if together we could come up with options that would work considering everyone is going to have different feelings and different ideas on how this should go. I don't think you should take this one on, this involves a lot of people who all have diverse emotions. I think it would be wise to seek help for you to understand exactly what your role is, if any at this point since she is living with your parents. I empathize with you, this is a tough one, but it may be another form of detachment for you. (((HUGS)))) [/QUOTE]
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