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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 587891" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Wow. Your plate is certainly full...........overfull. </p><p></p><p>You're being considerate of biodad, but HaoZi has a point, he's a grown up and most likely somewhere in the back of his mind has thought a time or two that his child might look him up one day. </p><p></p><p>You're going to have to take deep breaths and realize this is not a situation you can control, you most likely can't even referee it..... It will be what it will be. If difficult child has issues or whatever and wants to confront biodad.......then biodad can deal or not. Not your problem. You're not the one who left, do not take responsibility for it or try to put a silver lining on it. While it's good you harbor no ill feelings toward biodad, the man has got to face the consequences of his own choices. His feelings would be the least of my worries. </p><p></p><p>I understand you want this to be a positive experience, if possible, especially for difficult child. But again, it will be what it will be. There are too many fingers in this pie already. </p><p></p><p>I do, however, think getting a therapist to help them wade through these waters is a very good idea.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 587891, member: 84"] Wow. Your plate is certainly full...........overfull. You're being considerate of biodad, but HaoZi has a point, he's a grown up and most likely somewhere in the back of his mind has thought a time or two that his child might look him up one day. You're going to have to take deep breaths and realize this is not a situation you can control, you most likely can't even referee it..... It will be what it will be. If difficult child has issues or whatever and wants to confront biodad.......then biodad can deal or not. Not your problem. You're not the one who left, do not take responsibility for it or try to put a silver lining on it. While it's good you harbor no ill feelings toward biodad, the man has got to face the consequences of his own choices. His feelings would be the least of my worries. I understand you want this to be a positive experience, if possible, especially for difficult child. But again, it will be what it will be. There are too many fingers in this pie already. I do, however, think getting a therapist to help them wade through these waters is a very good idea. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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