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Could someone please explain my difficult child to me?
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 357088" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Kathy</p><p></p><p>IF difficult child is Borderline (BPD), I've discovered that treating them as you would treat a friend or stranger who treated you the same way is a wonderful guideline. Oddly enough, easy child and Travis were the ones I had the hardest time drumming this into. They had spent so much of their lives doting on and protecting Nichole, and yes downright spoiling her.........that it was a tough habit for them to break. But once they did was when we began to really see behavior changes. Nichole is no where near perfect........but she has come a long way from where she used to be.</p><p></p><p>Al anon ought to help husband see how certain things he does only makes her behavior worse or helps to continue it. And I think it would also help him not feel like an ogre when he does really start telling her No.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 357088, member: 84"] Kathy IF difficult child is Borderline (BPD), I've discovered that treating them as you would treat a friend or stranger who treated you the same way is a wonderful guideline. Oddly enough, easy child and Travis were the ones I had the hardest time drumming this into. They had spent so much of their lives doting on and protecting Nichole, and yes downright spoiling her.........that it was a tough habit for them to break. But once they did was when we began to really see behavior changes. Nichole is no where near perfect........but she has come a long way from where she used to be. Al anon ought to help husband see how certain things he does only makes her behavior worse or helps to continue it. And I think it would also help him not feel like an ogre when he does really start telling her No. [/QUOTE]
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