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Couldn't stay detached, messed up; now I'll pay for it in more ways than one
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<blockquote data-quote="Mamacat" data-source="post: 701565" data-attributes="member: 20962"><p>Boy oh boy, does this all sound familiar I'm in the midst of a similar situation right now. I've given and given to my daughter as she flees abusive relationships. I give to her hoingshe is now moving in the right direction. Wrong!! Next thing I know she's back with him again. This last time, she took my two granddaughters, ran to another state for a fresh start (but also because she loves the mountains and she can legally buy marijuana.) I've givern and given because she manipulate s me with all sorts of garbage and I can't see my granddaughters. She asked me to sign for an apt and there is no way I will do that. She is way too wishy-washy and I'd be stuck with an apt in another state. Needless to say, I don't hear from her . she did tell me that her last abuser\acohoic is coming for a visit. My one consolation iis that my granddaughters are not neglected. They are fed and clean and in school. She does rant at them when she's frustrated. One granddaughter has a birthday coming up . I've been the one to provide a party for her. Don't know what it will be like for her this year. I'm going on about my situation, but I guess what I'm saying is I understand. We want so bad for things to be better for our children. I have relapsed so many times. But I'm saying no now because the request iis more than I'm willing to do. I won't sign for anything. I really miss my granddaughters, but they're a thousand miles away right now I would love to talk to them, but that's not going to happen. So mcdonna, I so understand and hearing your story and those of others has helped me so much I don't feel alone </p><p>anymore and I gather strength and inspiration from all of you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamacat, post: 701565, member: 20962"] Boy oh boy, does this all sound familiar I'm in the midst of a similar situation right now. I've given and given to my daughter as she flees abusive relationships. I give to her hoingshe is now moving in the right direction. Wrong!! Next thing I know she's back with him again. This last time, she took my two granddaughters, ran to another state for a fresh start (but also because she loves the mountains and she can legally buy marijuana.) I've givern and given because she manipulate s me with all sorts of garbage and I can't see my granddaughters. She asked me to sign for an apt and there is no way I will do that. She is way too wishy-washy and I'd be stuck with an apt in another state. Needless to say, I don't hear from her . she did tell me that her last abuser\acohoic is coming for a visit. My one consolation iis that my granddaughters are not neglected. They are fed and clean and in school. She does rant at them when she's frustrated. One granddaughter has a birthday coming up . I've been the one to provide a party for her. Don't know what it will be like for her this year. I'm going on about my situation, but I guess what I'm saying is I understand. We want so bad for things to be better for our children. I have relapsed so many times. But I'm saying no now because the request iis more than I'm willing to do. I won't sign for anything. I really miss my granddaughters, but they're a thousand miles away right now I would love to talk to them, but that's not going to happen. So mcdonna, I so understand and hearing your story and those of others has helped me so much I don't feel alone anymore and I gather strength and inspiration from all of you [/QUOTE]
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