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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 296619" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>Wow, CPS lady came by to talk to difficult child. husband wasn't there. She sat at the dining room table with- difficult child and asked him about camp, asked him about court. Then asked if he'd been behaving himself since he came back? He admitted he lied about the ranger beads because I took away his tent stake he was trying to hide in his clothes. He admitted he'd been going out his window at night but wasn't doing it any more. "When did you stop?" "Before camp. " LOL. So he did it all the way up until we sent him 200 miles away and the one night he was back, he didn't do it. Go difficult child!!!</p><p> </p><p>(husband was shocked about that, he was sure difficult child couldn't be doing it, "He said that? He really said that?")</p><p> </p><p>She said that the therapist had told her that difficult child was doing what he was doing to push me out of dad's life, and then if I got pushed out he'd push out stepdaughter, so he has dad all to himself. (but therapist hasn't said that to either me or husband, and I wish he would).</p><p> </p><p>She emphasized how I'd have to protect myself. We talked about stepdaughter and I confided my worries that if I left she wouldn't be protected. I explained about how husband flipflopped but might be finally getting a bit of a clue. She told me about psychopathy and we talked about books we'd read about it. </p><p> </p><p>husband came home then and sat at the dining room table with us. He reconfirmed his commitment to let happen what will happen and to let go if he had to. "But it's hard, I feel like I'm losing my son forever, and I fought so hard to get custody and save him from his mother." He teared up. And he talked about how he was failing his son. She was very comforting.</p><p> </p><p>She stayed about an hour, which I know was after hours for her. </p><p> </p><p>So that was my day today. I'm exhausted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 296619, member: 5169"] Wow, CPS lady came by to talk to difficult child. husband wasn't there. She sat at the dining room table with- difficult child and asked him about camp, asked him about court. Then asked if he'd been behaving himself since he came back? He admitted he lied about the ranger beads because I took away his tent stake he was trying to hide in his clothes. He admitted he'd been going out his window at night but wasn't doing it any more. "When did you stop?" "Before camp. " LOL. So he did it all the way up until we sent him 200 miles away and the one night he was back, he didn't do it. Go difficult child!!! (husband was shocked about that, he was sure difficult child couldn't be doing it, "He said that? He really said that?") She said that the therapist had told her that difficult child was doing what he was doing to push me out of dad's life, and then if I got pushed out he'd push out stepdaughter, so he has dad all to himself. (but therapist hasn't said that to either me or husband, and I wish he would). She emphasized how I'd have to protect myself. We talked about stepdaughter and I confided my worries that if I left she wouldn't be protected. I explained about how husband flipflopped but might be finally getting a bit of a clue. She told me about psychopathy and we talked about books we'd read about it. husband came home then and sat at the dining room table with us. He reconfirmed his commitment to let happen what will happen and to let go if he had to. "But it's hard, I feel like I'm losing my son forever, and I fought so hard to get custody and save him from his mother." He teared up. And he talked about how he was failing his son. She was very comforting. She stayed about an hour, which I know was after hours for her. So that was my day today. I'm exhausted. [/QUOTE]
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