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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 218111" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am TOTALLY SCARED FOR YOU. He is going to kill you. The bit with the down blanket was very dangerous. What would have happened to your daughter's if he had smothered you right then and there?</p><p> </p><p>If your husband is not going to intervene when he sees your life in danger, then YOU MUST STEP UP AND PROTECT YOUR YOUNG CHILDREN.</p><p> </p><p>You have no other options that are safe than to go NOW to a domestic violence shelter.</p><p> </p><p>You are being ABUSED. So are your young children. Simply by seeing their brother do these things to you they are being abused.</p><p> </p><p>GET. OUT. NOW. TONIGHT.</p><p> </p><p>I am BEGGING you to do this for your daughters' sakes. </p><p> </p><p>I don't know what your husband means by enabling. If he means he wants your son out of the home, he is right. If he means something else, well, I don't know what the entire situation it.</p><p> </p><p>But in 1 "episode" your son </p><p> </p><p>a. tried to smother you 4 times iwth a comforter, </p><p>b. verbally abused you when you told him to stop trying to kill you,</p><p>c. tried to further damage your hearing by screaming in your ear</p><p>d. threatened to show you what it was like to "get hit by a man"</p><p>e. refused to let you call for emergency/police services (can be considered unlawful imprisonment in some areas)</p><p>f. refused to let you have the house/vehicle keys unless you gave him something (again, can be considered unlawful imprisonment in some areas)</p><p> </p><p>On top of all of this he did this in front of your young daughters.</p><p> </p><p>Stop and Think.</p><p> </p><p>What would you counsel your daughters to do if ANYONE did this to them when they were adults?</p><p> </p><p>First and foremost you would counsel them to get to a safe environment, no matter what it took.</p><p> </p><p>I am not sure if your son is using drugs other than pot (probably as pot is often laced with other drugs, so even if he isn't searching out other drugs he is likely to be using other drugs), or if this is a result of some mental illness or a psychotic break or some other problem all together.</p><p> </p><p>I DO know that you have a responsibility to those little girls. Your son has another parent. He can stay there, or you can get other services through the shelter. </p><p> </p><p>PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE protect those girls. And yourself. Because if you are not there, who will protect them?</p><p> </p><p>I am SOOO SORRY. I know this is impossibly hard. We are here for you, and will send all the support we can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 218111, member: 1233"] I am TOTALLY SCARED FOR YOU. He is going to kill you. The bit with the down blanket was very dangerous. What would have happened to your daughter's if he had smothered you right then and there? If your husband is not going to intervene when he sees your life in danger, then YOU MUST STEP UP AND PROTECT YOUR YOUNG CHILDREN. You have no other options that are safe than to go NOW to a domestic violence shelter. You are being ABUSED. So are your young children. Simply by seeing their brother do these things to you they are being abused. GET. OUT. NOW. TONIGHT. I am BEGGING you to do this for your daughters' sakes. I don't know what your husband means by enabling. If he means he wants your son out of the home, he is right. If he means something else, well, I don't know what the entire situation it. But in 1 "episode" your son a. tried to smother you 4 times iwth a comforter, b. verbally abused you when you told him to stop trying to kill you, c. tried to further damage your hearing by screaming in your ear d. threatened to show you what it was like to "get hit by a man" e. refused to let you call for emergency/police services (can be considered unlawful imprisonment in some areas) f. refused to let you have the house/vehicle keys unless you gave him something (again, can be considered unlawful imprisonment in some areas) On top of all of this he did this in front of your young daughters. Stop and Think. What would you counsel your daughters to do if ANYONE did this to them when they were adults? First and foremost you would counsel them to get to a safe environment, no matter what it took. I am not sure if your son is using drugs other than pot (probably as pot is often laced with other drugs, so even if he isn't searching out other drugs he is likely to be using other drugs), or if this is a result of some mental illness or a psychotic break or some other problem all together. I DO know that you have a responsibility to those little girls. Your son has another parent. He can stay there, or you can get other services through the shelter. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE protect those girls. And yourself. Because if you are not there, who will protect them? I am SOOO SORRY. I know this is impossibly hard. We are here for you, and will send all the support we can. [/QUOTE]
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