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Cps called on me and now im being harrassed: Help me please
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 564133" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I have not been in your shoes but I raised far too many young children, lol, and have had horrible days where I could have easily been doubted. Heck there were days when I doubted my own sanity. Most of us have been there done that. Hugs.</p><p></p><p>Is your husband still in the Army? If he is I "think" he can access legal advise free of charge. It makes sense to find out exactly what you need to do, what you should say and what you legally have the right to avoid saying to CPS.</p><p></p><p>Secondly I would suggest that you buy yourself a notebook and make a journal starting with "the day". Enter your honest recollection of what happened on each date. Don't journal anything that is false. There is a good reason to maintain records....mainly those type of first hand notes are considered in court cases. Secondly..and importantly... ADHD often ties in with memory and accurate retention. I have raised three ADHDers (one with gifted IQ, one with normal IQ, and another with a secondary issue) and all three "think" they recall things accurately after the fact and they often do not. So...protect yourself by making quick notes on a daily basis when phone calls or visits are fresh on your mind. It may prove very helpful.</p><p></p><p>by the way I would suggest not having the lady show up for a report that does not exist. That is wasting her time and will make it appear that you are being less than cooperative. IF you and your husband allowed your insurance to lapse PRIOR to the incident so that it is not possible to comply...have proof of that fact. Hopefully the Army attorney can lead you down this path. Sending best wishes. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 564133, member: 35"] I have not been in your shoes but I raised far too many young children, lol, and have had horrible days where I could have easily been doubted. Heck there were days when I doubted my own sanity. Most of us have been there done that. Hugs. Is your husband still in the Army? If he is I "think" he can access legal advise free of charge. It makes sense to find out exactly what you need to do, what you should say and what you legally have the right to avoid saying to CPS. Secondly I would suggest that you buy yourself a notebook and make a journal starting with "the day". Enter your honest recollection of what happened on each date. Don't journal anything that is false. There is a good reason to maintain records....mainly those type of first hand notes are considered in court cases. Secondly..and importantly... ADHD often ties in with memory and accurate retention. I have raised three ADHDers (one with gifted IQ, one with normal IQ, and another with a secondary issue) and all three "think" they recall things accurately after the fact and they often do not. So...protect yourself by making quick notes on a daily basis when phone calls or visits are fresh on your mind. It may prove very helpful. by the way I would suggest not having the lady show up for a report that does not exist. That is wasting her time and will make it appear that you are being less than cooperative. IF you and your husband allowed your insurance to lapse PRIOR to the incident so that it is not possible to comply...have proof of that fact. Hopefully the Army attorney can lead you down this path. Sending best wishes. DDD [/QUOTE]
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