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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 410974" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>sorry my easy child crashed last night. so i had to back up entire system than do a restore. that was alot of fun LOL.</p><p> </p><p>as far as cps is concerned unfortunately you need to just do as they ask, point blank. there is no giving them "what" i want anymore. It's giving them what "they want" across the board.</p><p> </p><p>So, Susie unfortunately there's no copying doctor's and chosing to give them what i want.</p><p> </p><p>I have set up a mtg. for next wed with superintendent of schools. my goals will be in home tutoring more than just 8 hours. it's not 8 a week. its' 8 in total they want to give her. there is a mound of work sitting inside that well makes me nervous. it'll take mos for her to catch up. my second goal is to tell him i want the reports, charges cps that school filed now removed i want the school to end it and contact them.</p><p> </p><p>so i'll go in with my doctor's, timeline etc. and just tell him if this doesnt' end i'm prepared to speak to an attny and go higher up in school district as this is a form of harrassment now that is just causing my sick child and myself and rest of family trememous anxiety that we do not need after battling an eating disorder for 8 months.</p><p> </p><p>i'm hoping it works, husband knows him apparentley so he'll be joining me.</p><p> </p><p>the rest of it, is what it is. i need an iep for her either way. i'm just going to try my best to break this mess into chunks for myself because honestly my anxiety at night is unlike anything i've ever known. it's 9 nights of close to no sleep and not all husband's fault it's my own anxiety, popping xanax that isnt' even workigna nymore. i'm falling asleep at 3 and 4 a.m than getting up at 10 a.m. it's absurd.</p><p> </p><p>i feel like i'm sinking over here. it's just all a bitmuch. so i have therapy tmrw again, going to ask her about her thoughts ona long term medication everyday medication not just a quick hit. joining gym sat. with easy child and doing my meditation again as of today. </p><p> </p><p>our whole family is hurting, its' so very sad. easy child is up each night now till all hours the ssri is giving her trouble, husband and i have extreme anxiety and well are struggling as you know. difficult child is pushing barriers bigtime now and it almost got physical last nite with-her. she hates husband and actually told him last night. multitude of reasons. </p><p> </p><p>i also contacted the cbt to ask him if there is pyschotherapy available for difficult child. i can't handle being her talk therapist anymore its' screwing my head up listening to the craziness that comes out of her and the deep depression.</p><p> </p><p>as far as moving goes, it's my utlimate goal. i havent' been happy here in this neighborhood since we moved here. difficult child either. i need a fresh start the ability to not have husband's story follow my life. it's still going around about what his ex did 5 years ago and now i'm the infamous 2nd wife. i think we deserve a fresh start, new neighborhood, ability to meet ppl that dont' say oh your so and so's husband the one whose wife turned gay etc. etc. kids get it also in school. seperation from this insanity is needed now. difficult child didnt' really get it more easy child. so yea i think it's time to go in june. kids wont' be happy they hate moving.</p><p> </p><p>yet in reality to stay here indef. doesnt' seem like a good option. the ex is only 5 min. away i see her food shopping, getting gas, etc. as do kids and they ignore them. so all in all i think this move whether husband and i pull it thru and make it is a positive one.</p><p> </p><p>all the responses by the way as per ususal amazing as each and everyone of you are in your own way. thanks!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 410974, member: 4514"] hi sorry my easy child crashed last night. so i had to back up entire system than do a restore. that was alot of fun LOL. as far as cps is concerned unfortunately you need to just do as they ask, point blank. there is no giving them "what" i want anymore. It's giving them what "they want" across the board. So, Susie unfortunately there's no copying doctor's and chosing to give them what i want. I have set up a mtg. for next wed with superintendent of schools. my goals will be in home tutoring more than just 8 hours. it's not 8 a week. its' 8 in total they want to give her. there is a mound of work sitting inside that well makes me nervous. it'll take mos for her to catch up. my second goal is to tell him i want the reports, charges cps that school filed now removed i want the school to end it and contact them. so i'll go in with my doctor's, timeline etc. and just tell him if this doesnt' end i'm prepared to speak to an attny and go higher up in school district as this is a form of harrassment now that is just causing my sick child and myself and rest of family trememous anxiety that we do not need after battling an eating disorder for 8 months. i'm hoping it works, husband knows him apparentley so he'll be joining me. the rest of it, is what it is. i need an iep for her either way. i'm just going to try my best to break this mess into chunks for myself because honestly my anxiety at night is unlike anything i've ever known. it's 9 nights of close to no sleep and not all husband's fault it's my own anxiety, popping xanax that isnt' even workigna nymore. i'm falling asleep at 3 and 4 a.m than getting up at 10 a.m. it's absurd. i feel like i'm sinking over here. it's just all a bitmuch. so i have therapy tmrw again, going to ask her about her thoughts ona long term medication everyday medication not just a quick hit. joining gym sat. with easy child and doing my meditation again as of today. our whole family is hurting, its' so very sad. easy child is up each night now till all hours the ssri is giving her trouble, husband and i have extreme anxiety and well are struggling as you know. difficult child is pushing barriers bigtime now and it almost got physical last nite with-her. she hates husband and actually told him last night. multitude of reasons. i also contacted the cbt to ask him if there is pyschotherapy available for difficult child. i can't handle being her talk therapist anymore its' screwing my head up listening to the craziness that comes out of her and the deep depression. as far as moving goes, it's my utlimate goal. i havent' been happy here in this neighborhood since we moved here. difficult child either. i need a fresh start the ability to not have husband's story follow my life. it's still going around about what his ex did 5 years ago and now i'm the infamous 2nd wife. i think we deserve a fresh start, new neighborhood, ability to meet ppl that dont' say oh your so and so's husband the one whose wife turned gay etc. etc. kids get it also in school. seperation from this insanity is needed now. difficult child didnt' really get it more easy child. so yea i think it's time to go in june. kids wont' be happy they hate moving. yet in reality to stay here indef. doesnt' seem like a good option. the ex is only 5 min. away i see her food shopping, getting gas, etc. as do kids and they ignore them. so all in all i think this move whether husband and i pull it thru and make it is a positive one. all the responses by the way as per ususal amazing as each and everyone of you are in your own way. thanks! [/QUOTE]
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