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<blockquote data-quote="barbie" data-source="post: 175958" data-attributes="member: 4842"><p>Thats what my point is. If firstly I am asking you into my home to observe and give my children therapy its because you can do something for them, that I can't. As a professional which if you are a behavior therapist, you should be, if you see me approach my five year old daughter who is teetering and I do mean standing on one foot on top of her closet doorknob reaching for something higher and my response is removing her from the situation/room and putting her in another room where if she does that its okay because the "exercise" equipment is back there, and honestly they use it more than we do. I think my response is appropriate and reasonable. Especially if once you seem startled I call you back so you can see what is in the room. </p><p></p><p>Danae, herself, is in therapy she had ADHD and for having tantrums, and these inappropriate reactions when things are said to her. Just today, the kids were taking a bubble bath, Danae did something, I asked her to get out of the tub, go to her room and get dressed, I walk away, she runs to her room with her towel on around her head screaming about how she is cold --dude we are in Florida what cold, anyhow, she screaming NO DONT DO IT, and I am in a completely different room from her. Wasn't even near her and she is having this hyper-response to being asked to get out of a tub and get dressed. I started using my camera to do videos to show them. </p><p></p><p>Sincerely I am not mad she called, shoot today I got my response from United Healthcare making a partial denial for Eric's Occupational Therapist (OT). They approved it two times a week for THREE weeks. We started the evaluation process in April, it July 18th. The case worker from CPS is going to open the doors that bylaws of UHC closed to me, Im glad she came, I have been looking for parenting classes for parents of kids with special needs but most groups don't allow for daycare which complicates things cause no one will watch him. She said with CMS he would have a TEAM, a complete team of people to help him, even typing this my eyes well up, cause Ive been asking for help for him for so long, and I got rules and restrictions, and we'll do this but not that. If she can help me find a good support network for me to vent and a great team of therapists and doctors to meet Eric's need and remove that weight off my shoulders shoot I would've called myself, I would've I've been on the phone whenever I've had a minute. </p><p></p><p>I just dont like that is she is there to help me work on ways to help them, then why not say something then. With the kids you correct the behavior as soon as it occurs, why should my mistake or behavior be any different.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="barbie, post: 175958, member: 4842"] Thats what my point is. If firstly I am asking you into my home to observe and give my children therapy its because you can do something for them, that I can't. As a professional which if you are a behavior therapist, you should be, if you see me approach my five year old daughter who is teetering and I do mean standing on one foot on top of her closet doorknob reaching for something higher and my response is removing her from the situation/room and putting her in another room where if she does that its okay because the "exercise" equipment is back there, and honestly they use it more than we do. I think my response is appropriate and reasonable. Especially if once you seem startled I call you back so you can see what is in the room. Danae, herself, is in therapy she had ADHD and for having tantrums, and these inappropriate reactions when things are said to her. Just today, the kids were taking a bubble bath, Danae did something, I asked her to get out of the tub, go to her room and get dressed, I walk away, she runs to her room with her towel on around her head screaming about how she is cold --dude we are in Florida what cold, anyhow, she screaming NO DONT DO IT, and I am in a completely different room from her. Wasn't even near her and she is having this hyper-response to being asked to get out of a tub and get dressed. I started using my camera to do videos to show them. Sincerely I am not mad she called, shoot today I got my response from United Healthcare making a partial denial for Eric's Occupational Therapist (OT). They approved it two times a week for THREE weeks. We started the evaluation process in April, it July 18th. The case worker from CPS is going to open the doors that bylaws of UHC closed to me, Im glad she came, I have been looking for parenting classes for parents of kids with special needs but most groups don't allow for daycare which complicates things cause no one will watch him. She said with CMS he would have a TEAM, a complete team of people to help him, even typing this my eyes well up, cause Ive been asking for help for him for so long, and I got rules and restrictions, and we'll do this but not that. If she can help me find a good support network for me to vent and a great team of therapists and doctors to meet Eric's need and remove that weight off my shoulders shoot I would've called myself, I would've I've been on the phone whenever I've had a minute. I just dont like that is she is there to help me work on ways to help them, then why not say something then. With the kids you correct the behavior as soon as it occurs, why should my mistake or behavior be any different. [/QUOTE]
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