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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 523116"><p>The more I think about it the crazier it seems... just a way to prolong really getting help. I also think he wants us to help him put together what he needs to do this and that feels an awful lot like enabling to me. I think I am going to kind of stay out of it and let my husband handle what he wants to send him. If I get invovled I will want to know more about the plan, and discuss what it all really means, and how is this going to help etc. etc. I don't think that conversation will really help..... so I need to step back from this.</p><p></p><p>My husband on the other hand will be practical and concrete and all I told my husband is don't plan to get anything you send him back!!!! And we are not buying him anything.... only sending him stuff we already have that we probably will never use... a way to start cleaning out the basement ya know!</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 523116"] The more I think about it the crazier it seems... just a way to prolong really getting help. I also think he wants us to help him put together what he needs to do this and that feels an awful lot like enabling to me. I think I am going to kind of stay out of it and let my husband handle what he wants to send him. If I get invovled I will want to know more about the plan, and discuss what it all really means, and how is this going to help etc. etc. I don't think that conversation will really help..... so I need to step back from this. My husband on the other hand will be practical and concrete and all I told my husband is don't plan to get anything you send him back!!!! And we are not buying him anything.... only sending him stuff we already have that we probably will never use... a way to start cleaning out the basement ya know! TL [/QUOTE]
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