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<blockquote data-quote="Lucedaleblessed" data-source="post: 275307" data-attributes="member: 6747"><p>It sounds awful.</p><p></p><p>Fortunately there are tons of therapists out there. You will have to tour the town until you find one she will be comfortable talking with. It would properly be best seeking a female therapist when the abuser was male. Don't give up.</p><p></p><p>She will never start talking about it with you. Sending her to somewhere inpatient won't solve the problem. It will only add to the problem because then she will start covering the real problem up with issues about being sent away.</p><p></p><p>Another good thing is that she properly won't be intimate with the 19 year old when she hates her own body like she does. But she needs to be around people instead of using a computer or a phone communicating with the world. </p><p></p><p>She is in the process of being comforted in her own isolated world while seeking virtual friends because they are "safe". No hugs and just turning the switch off when the conversation become difficult makes it too easy for her to redraw from the world.</p><p></p><p>I guess that she should attend the club more but can you find the time to attend some kind of sport with her where both of you can enjoy yourself among other people?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lucedaleblessed, post: 275307, member: 6747"] It sounds awful. Fortunately there are tons of therapists out there. You will have to tour the town until you find one she will be comfortable talking with. It would properly be best seeking a female therapist when the abuser was male. Don't give up. She will never start talking about it with you. Sending her to somewhere inpatient won't solve the problem. It will only add to the problem because then she will start covering the real problem up with issues about being sent away. Another good thing is that she properly won't be intimate with the 19 year old when she hates her own body like she does. But she needs to be around people instead of using a computer or a phone communicating with the world. She is in the process of being comforted in her own isolated world while seeking virtual friends because they are "safe". No hugs and just turning the switch off when the conversation become difficult makes it too easy for her to redraw from the world. I guess that she should attend the club more but can you find the time to attend some kind of sport with her where both of you can enjoy yourself among other people? [/QUOTE]
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