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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 172451" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Bertie, </p><p> </p><p>Don't know WA law - but most states will make him go to bond court today and if he can't post bond he won't be allowed out. Typically DV bond is in the neighborhood of 10,000 - 20,000.00. And if he was "caught" ???? Driving on suspended license (have no idea how that happens unless they saw him?) but that would depend on his prior charges. And again - largely to do with the law. </p><p> </p><p>I don't know if the girlfriend can or would file a petition against him. If she does then she'll have to come up with money for a peace bond, usually around $35.00 If she files charges at all. My guess is that today she is "fine" and not "playing games" and doesn't want the fall out. In which case I would advise your son to file abuse charges against her. Sadly too many women use this as a game or ploy and it makes it very difficult for the law to do their job. If she WAS in fear for herself and son - then she should file charges and that would put him in jail until court. </p><p> </p><p>UNLESS she's a total ditz and finds a bondsman and bonds him out after charges were file - which in that case he needs to tell her to hit the road and pack her stuff and put her out when get gets out and let her go. (thinking out loud here) </p><p> </p><p>I sincerely doubt that they will ROR (release on own recog.) but it could happen. And they will more than likely order him into anger management courses. (one would hope) </p><p> </p><p>As far as keeping him in jail or him signing himself up for addiction to pot? Not likely. At best it sounds like a VOP (violation of probation) and a slap. Depends on his probation officer and the judge. </p><p> </p><p>Also - if he is living on his own - he qualifies for a PD. Instead of you paying big bucks for an attorney. I'm curious - why are you bailing him out by getting him an atty? ? Do you think he'll go back to living with her?</p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry for your hurt - Maybe I dont' get the whole story here so forgive me if I misunderstand. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 172451, member: 4964"] Bertie, Don't know WA law - but most states will make him go to bond court today and if he can't post bond he won't be allowed out. Typically DV bond is in the neighborhood of 10,000 - 20,000.00. And if he was "caught" ???? Driving on suspended license (have no idea how that happens unless they saw him?) but that would depend on his prior charges. And again - largely to do with the law. I don't know if the girlfriend can or would file a petition against him. If she does then she'll have to come up with money for a peace bond, usually around $35.00 If she files charges at all. My guess is that today she is "fine" and not "playing games" and doesn't want the fall out. In which case I would advise your son to file abuse charges against her. Sadly too many women use this as a game or ploy and it makes it very difficult for the law to do their job. If she WAS in fear for herself and son - then she should file charges and that would put him in jail until court. UNLESS she's a total ditz and finds a bondsman and bonds him out after charges were file - which in that case he needs to tell her to hit the road and pack her stuff and put her out when get gets out and let her go. (thinking out loud here) I sincerely doubt that they will ROR (release on own recog.) but it could happen. And they will more than likely order him into anger management courses. (one would hope) As far as keeping him in jail or him signing himself up for addiction to pot? Not likely. At best it sounds like a VOP (violation of probation) and a slap. Depends on his probation officer and the judge. Also - if he is living on his own - he qualifies for a PD. Instead of you paying big bucks for an attorney. I'm curious - why are you bailing him out by getting him an atty? ? Do you think he'll go back to living with her? I'm sorry for your hurt - Maybe I dont' get the whole story here so forgive me if I misunderstand. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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