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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 680327" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi again,</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately my tablet broke down all together. I am at library right now. I will not be able to check in until the new computer arrives.</p><p></p><p>I skimmed what others have said. Good. You are getting various perspectives.</p><p></p><p>I would think about going to an attorney. I would also look at bank accounts, and credit reports. There are other threads on CD where this has happened to parents. One daughter stole 300k from her parents, by stealing their identity. Her husband is a cop! You will find more viewpoints on those other threads. The reason I would go to an attorney is to first, understand the legal ramifications for you and for her, and have it inform how you go about this. Second, I think the agreement will have more teeth if an attorney is involved. An agreement just to repay you, without an statement of culpability and consequences (police) could end up being without much value. In that I mean, value to get your daughter to take this seriously.</p><p></p><p>Really, would you not say just about anything to get out of the situation she is in? She needs to stay afraid. That is what I think. The other thing is you do not know what else might turn up. And the other thing, is there needs to be somebody who is not you involved, to help you monitor the repayment, and if you do need to file charges, a back up. Of course all of that is my own opinion. I do not know her, you or the real circumstances.</p><p></p><p>As far as making sense of what she is doing. I would not try. I mean, it is clear she is out of control and/or concealing a great deal. I am sorry I will be out of commission. Keep posting. I will check for you when I am back online.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 680327, member: 18958"] Hi again, Unfortunately my tablet broke down all together. I am at library right now. I will not be able to check in until the new computer arrives. I skimmed what others have said. Good. You are getting various perspectives. I would think about going to an attorney. I would also look at bank accounts, and credit reports. There are other threads on CD where this has happened to parents. One daughter stole 300k from her parents, by stealing their identity. Her husband is a cop! You will find more viewpoints on those other threads. The reason I would go to an attorney is to first, understand the legal ramifications for you and for her, and have it inform how you go about this. Second, I think the agreement will have more teeth if an attorney is involved. An agreement just to repay you, without an statement of culpability and consequences (police) could end up being without much value. In that I mean, value to get your daughter to take this seriously. Really, would you not say just about anything to get out of the situation she is in? She needs to stay afraid. That is what I think. The other thing is you do not know what else might turn up. And the other thing, is there needs to be somebody who is not you involved, to help you monitor the repayment, and if you do need to file charges, a back up. Of course all of that is my own opinion. I do not know her, you or the real circumstances. As far as making sense of what she is doing. I would not try. I mean, it is clear she is out of control and/or concealing a great deal. I am sorry I will be out of commission. Keep posting. I will check for you when I am back online. COPA [/QUOTE]
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