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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 680827" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Yes. It is not torn apart. It just feels like it.</p><p>You do not know yet what exactly happened, I mean you know what she did. You do not know why or how come, beyond she used up the money.</p><p></p><p>She may have compartmentalized the behavior, in some part of herself that is not integrated into her day to day feeling and thinking. Who knows? It all depends on what happens next. What she does.</p><p></p><p>That will define her, and that will define what happens to her in terms of belonging to the family. If she works hard and makes amends, comes to better know herself, this may be a turning point for the good. It is up to her.</p><p></p><p>The grief will lessen. Based upon stuff that has happened to me, it will always hurt, what happened. But you mend. The family mends. Life goes on.</p><p></p><p>It is still so fresh and new. You are a victim of a crime. And your daughter is the perpetrator. How can that not set you back? Do not, try not to have expectations that are unrealistic for yourself. We all do. But you are in shock. You are grieving.</p><p></p><p>I am having a hard time, too. Think about, if you have energy and time, posting on other threads. You will see all manner of hurts, and all kinds of care and love and support here. I will look for you.</p><p></p><p>Take care.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 680827, member: 18958"] Yes. It is not torn apart. It just feels like it. You do not know yet what exactly happened, I mean you know what she did. You do not know why or how come, beyond she used up the money. She may have compartmentalized the behavior, in some part of herself that is not integrated into her day to day feeling and thinking. Who knows? It all depends on what happens next. What she does. That will define her, and that will define what happens to her in terms of belonging to the family. If she works hard and makes amends, comes to better know herself, this may be a turning point for the good. It is up to her. The grief will lessen. Based upon stuff that has happened to me, it will always hurt, what happened. But you mend. The family mends. Life goes on. It is still so fresh and new. You are a victim of a crime. And your daughter is the perpetrator. How can that not set you back? Do not, try not to have expectations that are unrealistic for yourself. We all do. But you are in shock. You are grieving. I am having a hard time, too. Think about, if you have energy and time, posting on other threads. You will see all manner of hurts, and all kinds of care and love and support here. I will look for you. Take care. COPA [/QUOTE]
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