My daughter, 27, lives 12 hours away and has borderline personality disorder. She has tried (and failed) therapy numerous times. I am about at the end of my rope. She doesn't want to work, just got out of a very abusive relationship, but has already met another guy (seems to be ok, but who knows). I am so exhausted worrying about her all of the time. She does not want to get help and I don't know what the best thing I can do for her is. I have tried separating myself from her, but she will just call me constantly, even at work, until I answer the phone and either give her what she wants or tell her what she wants to hear. Thankfully she is not involved in drugs, but I don't know how I can get her help. I have previously been to therapy, but stopped because they just keep telling me the same thing and it is not working. Any suggestions would be appreciated.