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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 543022" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>Malika.......I dont know how open you are regarding the adoption? Is it fully open or semi open? Do you want his bio family to fully be part of his everyday life? Sorry, maybe I misunderstood why you want to move?</p><p>All I want to share, just my experience.....I was very open regarding my difficult child adoption with him....but its semi open so he has no contact with bios....but what I didnt realize is the importance of structure and predictability in his life....He didnt, still dont understand all the aspects of the adoption....So without me realizing it I contributed terribly to his anxieties....making behaviour worse.....What I am trying to say....what ever you do....always keep in mind that everything needs to be in small chuncks....predictable and as less complicated for your son as possible.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 543022, member: 8045"] Malika.......I dont know how open you are regarding the adoption? Is it fully open or semi open? Do you want his bio family to fully be part of his everyday life? Sorry, maybe I misunderstood why you want to move? All I want to share, just my experience.....I was very open regarding my difficult child adoption with him....but its semi open so he has no contact with bios....but what I didnt realize is the importance of structure and predictability in his life....He didnt, still dont understand all the aspects of the adoption....So without me realizing it I contributed terribly to his anxieties....making behaviour worse.....What I am trying to say....what ever you do....always keep in mind that everything needs to be in small chuncks....predictable and as less complicated for your son as possible..... [/QUOTE]
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