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<blockquote data-quote="BrokenheartedMum" data-source="post: 714074" data-attributes="member: 21851"><p>Yes Blighty, I think you are onto something! His anger definitely is deep towards himself, and I do think he "takes it out on me" because I allow it and because he feels I will love him despite it all. Right now I am torn about how to proceed. I know that this lack of communication is probably a good thing for him, because in the absence of being able to call me for every tiny little bump in his day, he is having to deal with these minor things himself, which is a great thing. I see now that I did both of us a disservice by answering whenever he called. But part of me wants to reach out and get past this, so I can set my boundaries with him and proceed in what will be a healthier way for me. I am just not sure how long to let this ride.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BrokenheartedMum, post: 714074, member: 21851"] Yes Blighty, I think you are onto something! His anger definitely is deep towards himself, and I do think he "takes it out on me" because I allow it and because he feels I will love him despite it all. Right now I am torn about how to proceed. I know that this lack of communication is probably a good thing for him, because in the absence of being able to call me for every tiny little bump in his day, he is having to deal with these minor things himself, which is a great thing. I see now that I did both of us a disservice by answering whenever he called. But part of me wants to reach out and get past this, so I can set my boundaries with him and proceed in what will be a healthier way for me. I am just not sure how long to let this ride..... [/QUOTE]
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