If you asked your spouse, post emotional affairs, to remove his exes from his past from his facebook and he took offense to it and seemed to care more about what they think then what you think...would you call this disrespect and see it as an indication of not caring about the relationship or marriage? It's a deal breaker for me now and I made that known 2 days ago and then he got all defensive about it and said well if I have to do that (a specific person) then I'd have to do that for all my exes. No kidding, it's not rocket science. In the first place, he shouldn't have exes on his facebook. I don't have any on mine. It's really hard to trust and respect him when he can't respect my wishes and needs to continue in this relationship.