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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 425605"><p>I don't know what she has done in the past, but I gather it is VERY significant. Why does she want to reconnect at this time? I think it is wise to be careful. She can not hurt you unless you allow her to hurt you. Why not give permission to see her, but set up boundaries around this? See what you see. In the mean time....keep up your detachment skills. Keep this visit or any visits short and sweet. And if she seems sincere (and not just out to use you, etc) then consider a future visit. Enjoy the moment. One short visit at a time, on your terms. AND if she is NOT appropriate, then either greatly reduce the frequency or eliminate them for some time to come. You are in the driver seat here. Take each day, one day at a time. And remember...you've got the power. It is your choice whether or not you are going to use it. It is your choice whether or not you are going to be happy even with this in the background.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 425605"] I don't know what she has done in the past, but I gather it is VERY significant. Why does she want to reconnect at this time? I think it is wise to be careful. She can not hurt you unless you allow her to hurt you. Why not give permission to see her, but set up boundaries around this? See what you see. In the mean time....keep up your detachment skills. Keep this visit or any visits short and sweet. And if she seems sincere (and not just out to use you, etc) then consider a future visit. Enjoy the moment. One short visit at a time, on your terms. AND if she is NOT appropriate, then either greatly reduce the frequency or eliminate them for some time to come. You are in the driver seat here. Take each day, one day at a time. And remember...you've got the power. It is your choice whether or not you are going to use it. It is your choice whether or not you are going to be happy even with this in the background. [/QUOTE]
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