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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 222731"><p>My personal preference in disciplining my children is not to spank. But that is just how I feel. I don't think you are a horrible parent if you spank your children, I am just not comfortable in doing so. I just think it is a contradiction, we tell our children not to hit and then we hit them? But, like I said that is just how I feel personally. I have friends who spank their kids and I don't judge them for it, that's how they choose to discipline. Whatever works for you.</p><p></p><p>I completely agree with smallworld, I think at this age you are still figuring out what issues he really does have. My daughter's dxs changed a million times over the years. He is still young and unfortunately there are no blood tests to be sure of what the problems are. It's all about observation, and he is so young yet, his behaviors will change over time and most likely so will his dxs. That is the most frustrating part of raising these kids. There are very few definative answers.</p><p></p><p>I am also in agreement that something is going on when he goes to his dads. I'm not in any way saying something bad is happening at his dads but he might very well have trouble with change, as do most of our kids. Does this kind of behavior come out with any kind of change or is it usually only when he returns from his dads. He might be feeling sad that you and dad don't live in the same house and he does not know how to articulate those feelings properly so he is acting out. Just a though.</p><p></p><p>I know how hard this is, very tiring and frustrating. Hang in there and God bless. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 222731"] My personal preference in disciplining my children is not to spank. But that is just how I feel. I don't think you are a horrible parent if you spank your children, I am just not comfortable in doing so. I just think it is a contradiction, we tell our children not to hit and then we hit them? But, like I said that is just how I feel personally. I have friends who spank their kids and I don't judge them for it, that's how they choose to discipline. Whatever works for you. I completely agree with smallworld, I think at this age you are still figuring out what issues he really does have. My daughter's dxs changed a million times over the years. He is still young and unfortunately there are no blood tests to be sure of what the problems are. It's all about observation, and he is so young yet, his behaviors will change over time and most likely so will his dxs. That is the most frustrating part of raising these kids. There are very few definative answers. I am also in agreement that something is going on when he goes to his dads. I'm not in any way saying something bad is happening at his dads but he might very well have trouble with change, as do most of our kids. Does this kind of behavior come out with any kind of change or is it usually only when he returns from his dads. He might be feeling sad that you and dad don't live in the same house and he does not know how to articulate those feelings properly so he is acting out. Just a though. I know how hard this is, very tiring and frustrating. Hang in there and God bless. :) [/QUOTE]
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