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Defiance - I don't know
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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 222786" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>For my son the transition from his father, who was rejecting in small and large ways, was an emotional thing for him. If he is not taking his medications and his father has been critical about his "not need" for treatment then your son is also hampered with these adult opinion issues that are "at" him and not "in his best interests"</p><p>Hitting children to push them through to emotional collapse is a form of pure abuse..or abnormal use of power. </p><p>When I hear adults waffle on this matter I am of the opinion they are not simply not acquainted with the many non-violent forms of interaction to</p><p>teach by example.</p><p>At seven acting out to show the emotional confusion is a form of communication. REflecting what is visible(anger, confusion, upset) offering a means to share that mysterious inner thinking and feeling (hard for boys)</p><p>takes time.</p><p>Personally hitting to control children is passe. The adults who perpetuate this</p><p>are engaging abuse tactics which have consiquences visible through out the world. Hurting others hurts others. It keeps the abuse cycle turning.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 222786, member: 6271"] For my son the transition from his father, who was rejecting in small and large ways, was an emotional thing for him. If he is not taking his medications and his father has been critical about his "not need" for treatment then your son is also hampered with these adult opinion issues that are "at" him and not "in his best interests" Hitting children to push them through to emotional collapse is a form of pure abuse..or abnormal use of power. When I hear adults waffle on this matter I am of the opinion they are not simply not acquainted with the many non-violent forms of interaction to teach by example. At seven acting out to show the emotional confusion is a form of communication. REflecting what is visible(anger, confusion, upset) offering a means to share that mysterious inner thinking and feeling (hard for boys) takes time. Personally hitting to control children is passe. The adults who perpetuate this are engaging abuse tactics which have consiquences visible through out the world. Hurting others hurts others. It keeps the abuse cycle turning. [/QUOTE]
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