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Denial.......? Fear?
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 125911" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong>Thank you for listening; for the shoulder to lean on. husband & I are still sorting all this out. husband does want this done - struggles with the term "chronic" versus acute versus terminal. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>He knows it's not terminal or acute; the chronic part has been long enough. For an intelligent man, he's very good a staying clueless. And I don't mean this in a mean or harsh way. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>We spent time talking last night - he's pushing me to do more because of the upcoming trip to my family's house. "He" feels that if we are going to make a 300 mile trip I should be much stronger. The doctors feel it will be good for me emotionally to see my dad (whom I haven't seen in over a year) & to just get away. It will take more work to accomodate various issues but it will be a good boost to my well being.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>husband disagrees. Unless I'm totally mended we shouldn't be going anywhere.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>And - he wants to fix this & can't. He feels helpless, scared.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Thank you again - I'm going to save this thread for myself & share it with husband when I feel he's ready.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 125911, member: 393"] [B]Thank you for listening; for the shoulder to lean on. husband & I are still sorting all this out. husband does want this done - struggles with the term "chronic" versus acute versus terminal. He knows it's not terminal or acute; the chronic part has been long enough. For an intelligent man, he's very good a staying clueless. And I don't mean this in a mean or harsh way. We spent time talking last night - he's pushing me to do more because of the upcoming trip to my family's house. "He" feels that if we are going to make a 300 mile trip I should be much stronger. The doctors feel it will be good for me emotionally to see my dad (whom I haven't seen in over a year) & to just get away. It will take more work to accomodate various issues but it will be a good boost to my well being. husband disagrees. Unless I'm totally mended we shouldn't be going anywhere. And - he wants to fix this & can't. He feels helpless, scared. Thank you again - I'm going to save this thread for myself & share it with husband when I feel he's ready. [/B] [/QUOTE]
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