trinityroyal
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It seems a lot of us are struggling with boundaries, detachment, and what to say to our grown children when they want to involve us in their problems. Years ago, we compiled a list of phrases. Some of the newer members might not know this list exists, and for those of us who've been around for a while a reminder never hurts.
I found it useful to practice saying these until they come naturally. That way, in the midst of a crisis, I'm not tongue tied and don't fall into saying "yes" just for something to say.
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List of things to say when detaching | Parent Emeritus Archives
PonyGirl brought this up on Barbara's thread and I thought it might be a good idea for all of us to brainstorm together. Awhile ago I suggested some phrases that I had to write down and keep by the phone for when Rob called to whine, beg, or whatever. Since I'm not a quick thinker, it really...
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