Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Detecting a sense of quiet resignation among many of us...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 550295" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>My 34yo son was born a difficult child and the last 2 year relationship with another 37yo difficult child was stressful. I was detaching fairly well before her, but her constant e-mails and calls telling me I was 'the reason he was so f***** up' and his cutting himself, threatening suicide made all of the guilt I thought I had gotten over return.</p><p></p><p>During my emotional relapse I found this forum, I thank all of you too.</p><p></p><p>My son still posts all of his drama and suicidal thoughts on facebook, and I have family members that think I am cold blooded for not trying to rescue him. I don't ask him about any of it when he texts me. I listen to him talk about his deadbeat dad or anything else he wants to text about. No advice, no opinions.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child shows many signs of BDP and the cutting and suicidal threats has been in many of his short relationships. I have called the police in the past to check on him and when they arrived he said he was not suicidal so nothing was done.</p><p></p><p>After my male cousin committed suicide last week I was scared. All week I was emotionally drained and tired, wanting to spend time by myself. Like we all know, IT is what IT is, and we must acccept IT. </p><p></p><p>Each morning I pray for peace and I meditate. I am resting and enjoying the peace today, the drama has died down, it will return again I am sure.</p><p>(((huggs and blessings for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 550295, member: 13558"] My 34yo son was born a difficult child and the last 2 year relationship with another 37yo difficult child was stressful. I was detaching fairly well before her, but her constant e-mails and calls telling me I was 'the reason he was so f***** up' and his cutting himself, threatening suicide made all of the guilt I thought I had gotten over return. During my emotional relapse I found this forum, I thank all of you too. My son still posts all of his drama and suicidal thoughts on facebook, and I have family members that think I am cold blooded for not trying to rescue him. I don't ask him about any of it when he texts me. I listen to him talk about his deadbeat dad or anything else he wants to text about. No advice, no opinions. My difficult child shows many signs of BDP and the cutting and suicidal threats has been in many of his short relationships. I have called the police in the past to check on him and when they arrived he said he was not suicidal so nothing was done. After my male cousin committed suicide last week I was scared. All week I was emotionally drained and tired, wanting to spend time by myself. Like we all know, IT is what IT is, and we must acccept IT. Each morning I pray for peace and I meditate. I am resting and enjoying the peace today, the drama has died down, it will return again I am sure. (((huggs and blessings for us all))) [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Detecting a sense of quiet resignation among many of us...
Top