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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 754166" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>crayola... There are probably lots of reasons she, and other young women get pregnant.</p><p></p><p>This summer, while boyfriend was in jail, she was upset about something, and I found out it was because she started her period. I told her that was nothing to be upset about. She said boyfriend was upset that she started... And she was afraid he wouldn't stay with her if they couldn't have a child. Well, he had two others that had his baby and he didn't stick around for them, either!</p><p></p><p>DGD has always said she didn't want a child, it was never anything she was interested in. And after she found out she was pregnant she talked to a clinic about termination. This was when he was texting and calling his estranged wife. Another time she referred to the baby as "he's the one that wanted a fxxxxxg baby, not me. This was after he was texting some girl and she was sending him nude photos.</p><p></p><p>Now that the baby is developing and she's feeling movement, she seems appropriately happy and excited. But, I know that she sees the big picture has has said she knows she might be raising this child by herself. Several weeks ago, when she was upset about his texting someone else, I told her that I hope she keeps an open mind, and if when she has the child, if she thinks adoption would be a better option I would be supportive. That she still has options. She was afraid that if she tried for adoption, he would take the baby. I doubt any court would give him the baby, since they already terminated his parental rights. Then, the other girl that supposedly had a child with him, does not let him have contact. I'm not sure that any DNA testing has been done. Supposedly, one of his wife's first two boys were fathered by him, but she was married to someone else then, and the court gave both boys to first husband. What a Sh!t Show.</p><p></p><p>Regarding her biomom... I'm sure, now that she's pregnant, she has wondered how a mom could ever pick drugs over their child. Sadly, I know that unless things change, she will pick boyfriend over her child. He's her drug of choice now. I do believe she is no longer using drugs or alcohol as I see her almost daily. </p><p></p><p>The future is scary. He has put his wife in the hospital twice... Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 754166, member: 12511"] crayola... There are probably lots of reasons she, and other young women get pregnant. This summer, while boyfriend was in jail, she was upset about something, and I found out it was because she started her period. I told her that was nothing to be upset about. She said boyfriend was upset that she started... And she was afraid he wouldn't stay with her if they couldn't have a child. Well, he had two others that had his baby and he didn't stick around for them, either! DGD has always said she didn't want a child, it was never anything she was interested in. And after she found out she was pregnant she talked to a clinic about termination. This was when he was texting and calling his estranged wife. Another time she referred to the baby as "he's the one that wanted a fxxxxxg baby, not me. This was after he was texting some girl and she was sending him nude photos. Now that the baby is developing and she's feeling movement, she seems appropriately happy and excited. But, I know that she sees the big picture has has said she knows she might be raising this child by herself. Several weeks ago, when she was upset about his texting someone else, I told her that I hope she keeps an open mind, and if when she has the child, if she thinks adoption would be a better option I would be supportive. That she still has options. She was afraid that if she tried for adoption, he would take the baby. I doubt any court would give him the baby, since they already terminated his parental rights. Then, the other girl that supposedly had a child with him, does not let him have contact. I'm not sure that any DNA testing has been done. Supposedly, one of his wife's first two boys were fathered by him, but she was married to someone else then, and the court gave both boys to first husband. What a Sh!t Show. Regarding her biomom... I'm sure, now that she's pregnant, she has wondered how a mom could ever pick drugs over their child. Sadly, I know that unless things change, she will pick boyfriend over her child. He's her drug of choice now. I do believe she is no longer using drugs or alcohol as I see her almost daily. The future is scary. He has put his wife in the hospital twice... Ksm [/QUOTE]
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