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<blockquote data-quote="Numb" data-source="post: 479970" data-attributes="member: 13189"><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Thank you all very much for your comments. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Her trial was yesterday and she was released with supervision. She will not have a record if she keeps her nose clean for a year. I am very thankful for this, but doubtful she can do it.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">She had outstanding warrants in another county, so was to be transferred to that county after her court appearance. I didnt mention all the trouble she has been in to keep it short (it was still pretty long). She had a warrant for check fraud and another for misuse of a credit card. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">She wrote numerous bad checks and the credit card was stolen by her boyfriend at the time,from a woman at a bar. My daughter used the card to get gas. Im not sure what will happen with these cases, but she will have to get a public defender. When I asked how she could do such a thing her response was If she was stupid enough to leave her purse unattended, she deserved it. I had a S.W.A.T. team at my house at 5 in the morning looking for her boyfriend because of that.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Back to yesterday - A friend of a drug dealer she knows paid her bail for the warrants in the other county, so she was released. I spoke with her at 7 last night and she was completely drunk by that time. I havent spoken with her since.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">I know you only have my word to go on, but she was raised in a very loving environment. My family and friends are baffled as to what happened or what to do. </span></span><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">She has not lost anyone close to her. We have both been lucky in that regard. I also dont see how it would have been possible for her to have been molested. When her behavior started changing she had never been left unattended. The only place this could have taken place would have been school, and I volunteered there on my days off. I dont see how that could ever have happened at her school.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Im disgusted and horrified at the way I am currently feeling about my daughter. I know I will never give up on her, but I am at such a loss on how to deal with her. I know she will want to come home, and I know I will let her. I have nothing but a feeling of dread for when that takes place. The last ten years have been nothing but a feeling of fear and worry for her. I feel like I cant do it much longer. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Oh, and did I mention Thanksgiving is at my house this year? I am so worried about how that will go. She also has a warrant in this county for driving without insurance and an expired registration. With my luck the police will show up during dinner to get her. Theyve already been here once, and drive by the house often. Ive never broken the law (well, aside from speeding) and I hate the embarrassment I feel because of her actions.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'">Thank you again for all the comments and advice; I really appreciate them. And thanks to whomever for providing this forum. I have a great support system with family and friends, but its just not the same as discussing it with someone who has had a similar experience.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Numb, post: 479970, member: 13189"] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Thank you all very much for your comments. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Her trial was yesterday and she was released with supervision. She will not have a record if she keeps her nose clean for a year. I am very thankful for this, but doubtful she can do it. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]She had outstanding warrants in another county, so was to be transferred to that county after her court appearance. I didnt mention all the trouble she has been in to keep it short (it was still pretty long). She had a warrant for check fraud and another for misuse of a credit card. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]She wrote numerous bad checks and the credit card was stolen by her boyfriend at the time,from a woman at a bar. My daughter used the card to get gas. Im not sure what will happen with these cases, but she will have to get a public defender. When I asked how she could do such a thing her response was If she was stupid enough to leave her purse unattended, she deserved it. I had a S.W.A.T. team at my house at 5 in the morning looking for her boyfriend because of that.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Back to yesterday - A friend of a drug dealer she knows paid her bail for the warrants in the other county, so she was released. I spoke with her at 7 last night and she was completely drunk by that time. I havent spoken with her since. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]I know you only have my word to go on, but she was raised in a very loving environment. My family and friends are baffled as to what happened or what to do. [/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]She has not lost anyone close to her. We have both been lucky in that regard. I also dont see how it would have been possible for her to have been molested. When her behavior started changing she had never been left unattended. The only place this could have taken place would have been school, and I volunteered there on my days off. I dont see how that could ever have happened at her school. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Im disgusted and horrified at the way I am currently feeling about my daughter. I know I will never give up on her, but I am at such a loss on how to deal with her. I know she will want to come home, and I know I will let her. I have nothing but a feeling of dread for when that takes place. The last ten years have been nothing but a feeling of fear and worry for her. I feel like I cant do it much longer. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Oh, and did I mention Thanksgiving is at my house this year? I am so worried about how that will go. She also has a warrant in this county for driving without insurance and an expired registration. With my luck the police will show up during dinner to get her. Theyve already been here once, and drive by the house often. Ive never broken the law (well, aside from speeding) and I hate the embarrassment I feel because of her actions. [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=#000000][FONT=Calibri]Thank you again for all the comments and advice; I really appreciate them. And thanks to whomever for providing this forum. I have a great support system with family and friends, but its just not the same as discussing it with someone who has had a similar experience.[/FONT][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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