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<blockquote data-quote="CinderMCG" data-source="post: 641167" data-attributes="member: 18583"><p>SS - it's true isn't it? I actually have other words I have used for that but it may not be politically correct on this site..lol</p><p>I have been so lost for so long not knowing what to do about it and as much as the mental health professionals want to help unless you live it, it is very hard to understand what it is like. It's been a roller coaster that past few years of thinking ok kid you are on your own to only come racing in because of an event he instigated or thinking ...maybe if I tried this approach it would fix it.</p><p>My understanding is they don't see it like we do and that is why some will not seek help, but I don't get how he can't see it. He only sees that he lost his job/vehicle overall life as he had it due to ex-girlfriends or myself and his father. He very recently started blaming everything on his father and I splitting up, that was over 15 years ago! I said ok, if that is traumatizing you now let's go to a counsellor about it. That didn't happen. He can't see that the drugs he used and the actions HE took have brought him here, and I have never heard once that anything is his fault.</p><p>So he remains in the shelter and is not really communicating with me so I am hoping the counsellors in there can get through to him.</p><p>I am glad I have this site to turn to, very supportive and helps me get through the day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CinderMCG, post: 641167, member: 18583"] SS - it's true isn't it? I actually have other words I have used for that but it may not be politically correct on this site..lol I have been so lost for so long not knowing what to do about it and as much as the mental health professionals want to help unless you live it, it is very hard to understand what it is like. It's been a roller coaster that past few years of thinking ok kid you are on your own to only come racing in because of an event he instigated or thinking ...maybe if I tried this approach it would fix it. My understanding is they don't see it like we do and that is why some will not seek help, but I don't get how he can't see it. He only sees that he lost his job/vehicle overall life as he had it due to ex-girlfriends or myself and his father. He very recently started blaming everything on his father and I splitting up, that was over 15 years ago! I said ok, if that is traumatizing you now let's go to a counsellor about it. That didn't happen. He can't see that the drugs he used and the actions HE took have brought him here, and I have never heard once that anything is his fault. So he remains in the shelter and is not really communicating with me so I am hoping the counsellors in there can get through to him. I am glad I have this site to turn to, very supportive and helps me get through the day. [/QUOTE]
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