horserider
New Member
I am new to the boards, about 2/3 weeks now and I thought I came across a post on horse care questions. You mean I not only found a supportive group, but also some members that are cowgirls at heart? Awesome. I had to post and explain how I got back into horses.
My younger sister and I grew up riding on the Hunter/Jumper circuit and I was horseless for many years after she went off to college. I found a non-profit horse therapy program 6 yrs ago for chronic and terminally ill children. I begged the director to let my son into the program, we hit it off and she made an exception that changed my difficult child's life. She is now one of my best friends and my difficult child's strongest mentor and support outside of his family. This gal gives lesson's for free to all the children, we seek sponsors from businesses, etc. Recently their home went into forclosure and we had to find a place to move 10 horses or the program would shut down. My difficult child is a different child at the barn, he wraps his arms around the other kids, lead lines them, mucks stalls, loads hay, etc. Basically went to knowing nothing about horses and now can ride any style he chooses (western, english, saddleseat, driving). He is currently in long term treatment and misses the barn tremendously. He learned to ride on a very gentle saddlebred that he has bonded with, will groom, love on and talk to at length. This saddlebred is blind in one eye, all the more reason my son feels they both have their own struggles in life. We took my difficult child and his buddy to his first away show a few years ago. My difficult child was very concerned of the indoor areana and dust getting in his bad eye, and the bad lighting. His horse therpist explained to the judge our son was special needs and asked if she could stay in the rink with them (a walk, trot class). Well he got his first blue ribbon that day, I'm crying, his therpist is crying and my difficult child is crying as he comes out of the ring feeling so proud.
Unfortunetly 2 of the horse came down with strangles this week. Totally different world when she had to move them to a facility with- other horses for the first time, instead of having them at home. The plus side is we now have an indoor areana we can ride through the winter, as some of the children could not come out in the cold months.
Last month my wonderful friend added all spectrums of Autism to the program and we have some new children coming. She knows it's been therapy for me, as well as my difficult child to beable to go and ride, groom and just be around the horses. Heck sometimes I just go to muck stalls.
Take care all, have a good weekend