A comment was made this past weekend and I'd like your opinion. Wee difficult child clings to me at times. For example, at home, he wil literally hang on me. Or if I'm working on the computer, he will play literally inches from my work. Regardless of how much attention I give him, it is never enough. This weekend, we had the buggy out and went for a long ride. We had 5 people in the buggy, which is about the equivilant of having 5 people in a Honda Accord. Not real roomy. WeeGgg was cold and getting tired and wanted to lay down on the seat between husband and I, but that was not an option. I asked difficult child if he wanted to sit on my lap and he said yes, and did. I rider made a comment about me offering to let him sit on my lap and that it contributes to difficult child clinging on me, which I later complain about. And it just got me wondering...I do complain about difficult child hanging on me at times (it gets old) does me asking him to sit on my lap in cramped conditions contribute to that?