The biggest challenge I have to deal with as a parent is the inexplicable behavour of adults. My difficult child stayed over at the house of a friend whose parent does know I have told her and her boyfriend that I do not permit my child to thier home. Why? Because they do not respond aproriately. They do not answer the phone. They do not, in the words of the district psycologist "give a $#%#$!". The new twist is the parent was recently injured badly and may have lost use of her hands. It is so awful. I know. And this particular parent has neglected her children and teens over the years and subjected them to abusive "boyfriends" who never seem ept to the point of lifting her and her children from tight quarters with needs unmet. The recent loser recently moved out to the relief of her friends. And so she is relying on the teens to care for her. I am certain the Greeks have written something naming the condition. She goes to a Christian church and works for a Christian charity, and I find it very suspicious that she has not adult freinds who can do whatever she requires for help. Also,as she does know that I do not want my child in her home and especially do not want my child in her home overnights. Why, then, is she choicing to have my child in her home overnight when she returns from hospital? I have been on the phone and asking for help with this. I am reluctant to call police and create another scene with my child. I am thinking that tomorrow at school I can get the therapist involved straight away. The crisis to begin with was when she was throwing her teen out of the house after he was not doing well when he showed epylisy and required increasing levels of depakote. She did not aswer my calls when I was asked to get her to er, then later when he was at my house to be away from her yelling when his ap grade dropped after his epylepsy started and medications were kicking in.