mrscatinthehat
Seussical
some things before our staffing on Monday.
First she tells me she ran the other night. Me "I know staff called" in as blah a voice as I can.
She says "Oh" in the hmm I expected a better reaction voice. Then she says "My boyfriend and I had sex at school the other day."
This one take a bit more effort (as my brain was crawling out the ear that wasn't against the phone). Me "Oh, not sure how that could happen" again with the blah voice.
She says " we met in the rest room behind the gym"
Me "Oh, Okay well if I think of any more questions we can talk later."
She "Okay (you could hear the confusion) they took me to get std testing at the dr (you could almost hear glee in her voice as I am sure she was expecting me to freak) even though he said he doesn't have any".
Me "That seems sensible on the staffs part."
Then she goes "okay well I guess I will talk to you later"
Me "Okay, I love you (that one I added feeling to)"
And got off the phone.
The pride I had in myself was huge at not reacting at all. I know this is what she wanted then she could have a meltdown this weekend and we not show up for the staffing (as that is what happened last month). Well this is not even on the table this month as we have too much to do at this staffing.
I did retrieve my brain from the table. What helped was easy child was sitting opposite me and I didn't want her to hear any details about what was going on.
I think I did detatchment well. Afterward I wasn't sure if I was going to throw up or not. But alas I controlled the phone call she did not.
Beth
First she tells me she ran the other night. Me "I know staff called" in as blah a voice as I can.
She says "Oh" in the hmm I expected a better reaction voice. Then she says "My boyfriend and I had sex at school the other day."
This one take a bit more effort (as my brain was crawling out the ear that wasn't against the phone). Me "Oh, not sure how that could happen" again with the blah voice.
She says " we met in the rest room behind the gym"
Me "Oh, Okay well if I think of any more questions we can talk later."
She "Okay (you could hear the confusion) they took me to get std testing at the dr (you could almost hear glee in her voice as I am sure she was expecting me to freak) even though he said he doesn't have any".
Me "That seems sensible on the staffs part."
Then she goes "okay well I guess I will talk to you later"
Me "Okay, I love you (that one I added feeling to)"
And got off the phone.
The pride I had in myself was huge at not reacting at all. I know this is what she wanted then she could have a meltdown this weekend and we not show up for the staffing (as that is what happened last month). Well this is not even on the table this month as we have too much to do at this staffing.
I did retrieve my brain from the table. What helped was easy child was sitting opposite me and I didn't want her to hear any details about what was going on.
I think I did detatchment well. Afterward I wasn't sure if I was going to throw up or not. But alas I controlled the phone call she did not.
Beth