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difficult child 1 has made it clear she wants nothing to do with us
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 641523" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>I think that this may only apply when it is <em>directed at you by someone with a personality disorder.</em> In a relationship <em>with someone with a personality disorder </em>sometimes a cut-off can be the only saving grace <em><strong>FROM THEM!</strong></em> If someone you are dealing with is continuously abusive in anyway, you have to do what you have to do to distance yourself from that abuse. If that means a cut-off than so be it. </p><p>A cut-off can be necessary to protect yourself first. When a disordered person facilitates a cut-off I feel it is more a condition of manipulation and control. Again, a good reason to be in therapy for yourself to understand the right thing for you to do when dealing with a disordered personality/someone mentally ill.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 641523, member: 18366"] I think that this may only apply when it is [I]directed at you by someone with a personality disorder.[/I] In a relationship [I]with someone with a personality disorder [/I]sometimes a cut-off can be the only saving grace [I][B]FROM THEM![/B][/I] If someone you are dealing with is continuously abusive in anyway, you have to do what you have to do to distance yourself from that abuse. If that means a cut-off than so be it. A cut-off can be necessary to protect yourself first. When a disordered person facilitates a cut-off I feel it is more a condition of manipulation and control. Again, a good reason to be in therapy for yourself to understand the right thing for you to do when dealing with a disordered personality/someone mentally ill. [/QUOTE]
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